Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (Lillies In Bloom) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 18:23:03 GMT

brisync wrote:
And no, she is not a whore, you bitch. Everyone makes mistakes in life.

Damn. You're still defending her?

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (AudaciousAudrey) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 18:21:31 GMT

Being a whore is about how many people you sleep with, not the relationship status of ONE person you sleep with. This girl has had sex with one person, she is definitely not a whore. She just made a poor decision.

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (Rockfairy00) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 18:16:38 GMT

Sorry but sleeping with a married man makes you a whore

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (babylulu) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 17:08:35 GMT

MY ex-friend can't talk to me anymore either. I tried to ask her what I did to piss her off and she wouldn't respond so she decided to not be friends anymore so we're not.

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (lacheysgurl) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 17:08:15 GMT

hjames scott wrote:
Eh, I don't think having sex on a floor makes you a whore. It's just kind of dirty, especially in the back room at work.

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (theonlysassyone) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 17:07:17 GMT

Ok Ok, your friend is having an affair, at work no less with a married man. hmmm she was a virgin right. Morals, hmmm married man, and getting paid to get laid. love that.
how romantic was that first time on a dirty back room floor.

You say she isn't screwing him anymore, but she cancels an appt to screw oh sorry hang out with him,

and you are wondering why people are not on her side.

I am a married woman, and if my husband was hanging out with a chick...

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (hjames scott) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 16:59:35 GMT

Eh, I don't think having sex on a floor makes you a whore. It's just kind of dirty, especially in the back room at work.

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (Smallville78) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 16:59:10 GMT

your friend is a whore, she slept with a guy knowing he was married. and while doing it was on the floor as well, and she is still talking to him being involved with him, she is acting trashy as well

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (thetruthmaker) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 16:47:32 GMT

When his wife finds out, thats when the fun will really start.

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (lacheysgurl) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 16:46:19 GMT

itsmejustin wrote:
How can a girls first time having sex be promiscuous or whore-like?

Ok I'll break it down for you. This married man was so sleazy they had sex on a dirty floor where the two work. He/She obviously have no respect for the other. I didn't mean the girl was a virgin-- The man has no respect for his marriage/family/or...

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (iheartblue) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 16:42:30 GMT

Qrobur wrote:

brisync wrote:
Wow, I hope if you guys ever get into a bad situation people give you just as much compassion as you give others.

I wouldn't worry about it particularly. Young and inexperienced people are often the most judgemental of all because they are young and inexperienced.

Your friend is probably...

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (Rileyj26) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 16:40:13 GMT

First off I am not young...I am a married woman. And trust me that karma will swing back at her. My friend was the other woman..broke up the marriage....and then got engaged to the guy. Yep he cheated on here and stole money from her at the end.

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (becky711) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 16:40:03 GMT

a whore also means a venal or unscrupulous person
which means a person who lacks moral standards or conscience to guide one's conduct.

ummm if sleeping with a married man isn't throwing your morals out the door, I don't know what is.

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (itsmejustin) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 16:40:02 GMT

How can a girls first time having sex be promiscuous or whore-like?

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (Qrobur) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 16:38:57 GMT

^ And that is an example of judgemental nonsense.

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (lacheysgurl) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 16:38:17 GMT

Qrobur wrote:

brisync wrote:
Wow, I hope if you guys ever get into a bad situation people give you just as much compassion as you give others.

I wouldn't worry about it particularly. Young and inexperienced people are often the most judgemental of all because they are young and inexperienced.

Your friend is probably...

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (itsmejustin) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 16:35:39 GMT

The thing is, she needs to learn her lesson. Her friends abandoning her isn't going to make her leave him. If you feel it's too unhealthy for you to witness her actions then you need the separation.

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (Qrobur) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 16:34:45 GMT

brisync wrote:
Wow, I hope if you guys ever get into a bad situation people give you just as much compassion as you give others.

I wouldn't worry about it particularly. Young and inexperienced people are often the most judgemental of all because they are young and inexperienced.

Your friend is probably making a bad mistake and the bloke may very well be a cad...but it's also possible that...

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (lacheysgurl) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 16:33:21 GMT

brisync wrote:
Wow, I hope if you guys ever get into a bad situation people give you just as much compassion as you give others.

That being said, we have talked the situation into the ground numerous times. I've said everything I can to her about it, but she's so wrapped up in him she doesn't listen. She's lost a lot of friends because of it already. No one is going to be around when he dumps her or...

Re: I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (hjames scott) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 16:32:24 GMT

I don't have compassion for someone who knowingly inserts themself into a relationship with a married man. She's stupid, and if any of my friends did that, I wouldn't hesitate to tell them the exact same thing. There's just no condoning that type of behavior.

I think it's sad, though, that she's obviously still having sex with this guy. To lose your virginity to your horny ass of a married man manager, and continue to allow yourself to be used and manipulated...

I've decided I just can't talk to my best friend anymore...

feeds@yuku.com (brisync) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 16:03:19 GMT

It's going to be really hard. We talk on the phone every day. I just can't deal with her anymore though. She's changed so much in the past two months. She's been in a 'relationship' with her married manager. The amount of lying she's had to do to keep it up had turned her into a person I can't stand.

There's a lot more to the situation. It's maddening. Ugh.