Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (TealaB) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 09:38:16 GMT

For all you know, while he's busy saying "Oh it wont work out, i'll never make the drive, I don't like LD relationships, I need more attention, blah blah blah" to you, he could be saying "Oh sweety, I love you so much, of course our relationship will last, I'll come see you all the time, I'll wait for you, blah blah blah" to her. Sounds like he just wants as much sex as possible!

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (DarklyDreaming07) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 09:27:10 GMT

lolitachic05 wrote:
He sounds like a pussy, because he won't end it. That is not attractive, he sounds like a loser. The end.

Agreed. I wouldn't want to be with a guy who couldn't man up and just end something he doesn't want.

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (RayK3193) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 09:18:01 GMT

insomniachollie wrote:
So this guy is going to just let his girlfriend waltz off into the sunset knowing that she will still consider them an item/be trying to make it work and he's already mentally checked out of the relationship and is setting up his next conquest for the second she's gone? He's too chicken to actually call it off and finish with her so he's sitting there plotting how to let it fizzle out and...

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (lolitachic05) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 08:52:17 GMT

He sounds like a pussy, because he won't end it. That is not attractive, he sounds like a loser. The end.

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (insomniachollie) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 07:06:54 GMT

So this guy is going to just let his girlfriend waltz off into the sunset knowing that she will still consider them an item/be trying to make it work and he's already mentally checked out of the relationship and is setting up his next conquest for the second she's gone? He's too chicken to actually call it off and finish with her so he's sitting there plotting how to let it fizzle out and planning to overlap with you?

Forgive me, but I'm failing to see why...

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (joleen041) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 05:50:33 GMT

OhManImScrewed wrote:
You guys are hos. Don't fuck another girl's boyfriend. End of story. You know you would feel terrible if you were on the other side, so just don't do it. It doesn't sound like it will last much longer anyway, so tell him to man up and break it off if he wants ass from someone else.

Hold up. The poster asked for our...

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (muffinlover) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 05:38:11 GMT

OhManImScrewed wrote:
You guys are hos. Don't fuck another girl's boyfriend. End of story. You know you would feel terrible if you were on the other side, so just don't do it. It doesn't sound like it will last much longer anyway, so tell him to man up and break it off if he wants ass from someone else.

LMAO. You sound a teensy bit bitter.

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (muffinlover) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 05:27:53 GMT

Life's too short. I met my current bf when he was in a relationship (I was too, actually) and here we are 4 years later. Sometimes the risk is worth taking, other times all it's going to end up being is a spark that fizzles out once you have sex.

You have to make that call on your own.

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (Pliant Pineapple) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 05:25:58 GMT

ah fuck it.

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (All That Jaz) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 03:40:14 GMT

I know someone is gonna say "You wouldn't understand unless you experience it" and, I won't argue that. But I still do no understand how girls especially get themselves into these situations, and then act sad and horrified when the situation is vice versa lol Cue a ton of "My boyfriend cheated on me, JJB " posts and "Well, maybe he hit on her first and didnt want to break...

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (OhManImScrewed) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 03:08:27 GMT

You guys are hos. Don't fuck another girl's boyfriend. End of story. You know you would feel terrible if you were on the other side, so just don't do it. It doesn't sound like it will last much longer anyway, so tell him to man up and break it off if he wants ass from someone else.

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (Samantha James) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 03:03:50 GMT

Leave him alone. The end.

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (rubixcube86) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 03:00:35 GMT

I agree, you need to wait until he ends his relationship with her. Even though he may not feel the "sparks", she's still his girlfriend and he needs to be mature and end one relationship before he jumps into another. Going behind her back should be a sign to you to that he may not want to be someone you're involved (physically or otherwise) with. If he'll cheat, what else will he do?

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (joleen041) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 01:37:57 GMT

Dylishis wrote:
Oh, just go ahead and fuck him.

I must agree. The girlfriend is crazy anyway, so think of it as rescuing him from a hurricane. Be upfront about the fact that you just want some ass, then bounce to it. Hit it FWB style.. and there you have it. No drama.

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (ICouldCatchAMonkey) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 01:30:24 GMT

He needs to break up with her. It sounds as if he couldn't BE less into the relationship, and yeah, she's going to be upset...but who wants to be with someone who describes them as "dull, insecure, crazy/paranoid"? They're better off apart.

Obviously that's his issue to deal with, though, not yours.

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (Dirty Coke) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 01:22:58 GMT

Dylishis wrote:

Dirty Coke wrote:

Dylishis wrote:
Oh, just go ahead and fuck him.

LMAO Are you drunk again?

It's Tuesday night! NO!

That means nothing!

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (polkadotelephant5) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 01:20:26 GMT

Purplelilac82 wrote:

polkadotelephant5 wrote:

jetsetter4eva wrote:

She knows something's up too, she's very suspicious of me and they've fought about me too, even though nothing has physically happened.
She has every right to be suspicious. You're...

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (Purplelilac82) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 01:18:59 GMT

polkadotelephant5 wrote:

jetsetter4eva wrote:

She knows something's up too, she's very suspicious of me and they've fought about me too, even though nothing has physically happened.

She has every right to be suspicious. You're thinking about BONING her boyfriend......

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (polkadotelephant5) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 01:18:39 GMT

FunSized wrote:
Just be respectful of their relationship, and wait until he calls it off to do anything. No matter what he says about her, and how awful he makes her sound, she is still his girlfriend.

I have been more respectful of their relationship than he has! I won't do anything. We've become good friends and one of the other reasons why I don't think I want to date him is because I simply...

Re: Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (FunSized) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 01:15:23 GMT

Just be respectful of their relationship, and wait until he calls it off to do anything. No matter what he says about her, and how awful he makes her sound, she is still his girlfriend.

Sexual tension/chemistry with a taken guy

feeds@yuku.com (polkadotelephant5) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 00:24:31 GMT

One of my guy friends has a girlfriend who is leaving soon. We flirt all the time and I'm aware that he is definitely mentally/emotionally cheating. It's like he has already checked out of the relationship but want things to end naturally as she leaves because he wants to preserve the friendship they had before dating. I've also made it clear that I don't want him to cheat or break up with his girlfriend. Anyway, there is SO much sexual tension between us and we're both...