My husband told me he doesn't think we should be married

Re: My husband told me he doesn't think we should be married

feeds@yuku.com (1glitter1) — Fri, 01 Aug 2008 16:40:43 GMT

^ she just updated:

http://jjb.yuku.com/topic/362500

Re: My husband told me he doesn't think we should be married

feeds@yuku.com (DriLo) — Fri, 01 Aug 2008 16:33:57 GMT

BUMP!!!

Has anyone heard from Kobe? How is she doing?

Re: My husband told me he doesn't think we should be married

feeds@yuku.com (femme0622) — Thu, 31 Jul 2008 15:09:21 GMT

NickelodeonSucksLoL wrote:

KobesPrincess1982 wrote:
He is still saying that if I just go back and let him jizz in my mouth, everything will be fine. I know thats not right but its totally messing with my head and making it feel like its my fault.

He also said I'll never find a guy who will stay with me if I don't let them in my...

Re: My husband told me he doesn't think we should be married

feeds@yuku.com (hoosierette2007) — Thu, 31 Jul 2008 15:05:36 GMT

Re: My husband told me he doesn't think we should be married

feeds@yuku.com (hoosierette2007) — Wed, 30 Jul 2008 20:42:08 GMT

Have you moved your stuff into your 'rents place yet?

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feeds@yuku.com (une reine) — Wed, 30 Jul 2008 01:48:56 GMT

I still can't believe he's in LAW SCHOOL??

Re: My husband told me he doesn't think we should be married

feeds@yuku.com (NickelodeonSucksLoL) — Wed, 30 Jul 2008 01:35:34 GMT

KobesPrincess1982 wrote:
He is still saying that if I just go back and let him jizz in my mouth, everything will be fine. I know thats not right but its totally messing with my head and making it feel like its my fault.

He also said I'll never find a guy who will stay with me if I don't let them in my mouth.

I don't know why he's making this such a big thing and making me feel like...

Re: My husband told me he doesn't think we should be married

feeds@yuku.com (hoosierette2007) — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 23:54:49 GMT

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feeds@yuku.com (dlistedceleb) — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 22:43:55 GMT

Dude stop reading this shit that he's sending you. You should have even read that fucking email. just put it in a folder to save for your divorce proceedings. He's fucking with your head because you're allowing him to fuck with your head. Fuck him, he's fucking sorry if all he thinks you're good for is to suck his penis or some shit. Tell him to suck his own fucking shit and get the fuck on. You're better than this shit he's putting you though, so please don't...

Re: My husband told me he doesn't think we should be married

feeds@yuku.com (LilBabyWithTheSundressOn) — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 22:38:41 GMT

The more you post the more I see certain similarities to my husband. Mine often had issues with sex...really wanting me to do things that I wasn't comfortable with, taking it personally when I turned him down all together or that I didn't "trust" him enough to at least try some of those things. However, he never pushed at me the way yours has. And while he wasn't always...

Re: My husband told me he doesn't think we should be married

feeds@yuku.com (bananahammock) — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 21:50:18 GMT

I just read this entire post and though I am young and have not had any of the experiences the other commenters have had, I just want to tell you how very sorry I am that you have to go through this. I am in tears reading this because I just cannot stand to see someone who seems as sweet as you be fucked over by someone as disgusting as him. I don't have any words of wisdom that will make all this pain magically go away, but I just wanted you to know that I will be keeping you in my...

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feeds@yuku.com (bluegrass60062) — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 20:32:08 GMT

KobesPrincess1982 wrote:
So I come back from my lunch time run to a super long email about everything thats wrong with me....from how I'm controlling because I don't like him having parties on Thursday nights (when I have to get up at work on Friday morning to pay our bills) to the sex stuff.

He ended it with a paragraph of how if I just come back and suck on his penis and let him get off, it would show...

Re: My husband told me he doesn't think we should be married

feeds@yuku.com (gibbleyspider) — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 20:01:21 GMT

Kobes it was brave of you to write on here and you have the support of a lot of agony aunts (and possibly uncles). I know it must be difficult to hear all the logical and rational arguments when you are in emotional turmoil but we are all with you. Chin up.

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feeds@yuku.com (virgolicious83) — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 18:13:53 GMT

I never post here but I wanted to jump in and tell you that this isn't your fault and you aren't alone. I'm dealing with this same situation with a close friend and her husband and it's HARD. As an outsider lending support I was frustrated because it took her so damned long to finally emotionally detach herself from the situation. Even now, coming up on a year from the day he packed and left her and the country (I'm praying he got deported and just won't tell her) she...

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feeds@yuku.com (SchizoGrl) — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 18:03:32 GMT

I have read this post from pg 1 and I felt I have to comment.

Being a white woman myself who dated only black guys throughout my teenage years and into my early twenties, and even having a child from a black man, I have had similar experiences, where if I didn't do something sexual that he wanted then he would leave me or cheat on me. One relationship in particular was abusive both mentally and physically. As many have said, you are in an emotionally abusive relationship, and as...

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feeds@yuku.com (SpectorLover) — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 17:37:52 GMT

This guy is UNBELIEVABLE. He couldn't just ASK you nicely, and accept no as an answer? I mean, couples should be able to explore their sexuality with each other, and ask the other to do things for them. But, the ones that REALLY love each other (not saying you don't love him, this is directed to him) accept no as an answer and MOVE THE FUCK ON. This guy has no respect for you. THIS IS !!NOT!! YOUR FAULT! If he is willing to get a divorce over you swallowing his cum, he isn't worth...

Re: My husband told me he doesn't think we should be married

feeds@yuku.com (Alicia) — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 17:37:32 GMT

And I'm free to have mine. My opinion is that you're a retard.

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feeds@yuku.com (Smallville78) — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 17:36:01 GMT

i mean re read the message people are just saying the same thing over and over. so what is this going to be a 200 page thread. he has done enough shit, id be in a lawers office and have all his phones and emails blocked. and this is a puplic message board im free to have my opinion like everyone else

Re: My husband told me he doesn't think we should be married

feeds@yuku.com (Alicia) — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 17:33:28 GMT

LMAO

Re: My husband told me he doesn't think we should be married

feeds@yuku.com (Smallville78) — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 17:32:10 GMT

shut up, i have given good advice.

My husband told me he doesn't think we should be married

feeds@yuku.com (KobesPrincess1982) — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 10:11:58 GMT

anymore.

And that he's going to be gone by the time I get home from work tonight.

It doesn't feel real and part of me thinks he's lying. I keep going between crying and thinking that he'll be there when I get home. I'm stuck at work and I really don't know what to do. I can't tell anyone here and I'm realizing I have very few friends.

I guess I'm just telling you guys cause I had to tell someone. I don't know what to do.