http://thejjb.com/topic/572159/t/How-do-you-tell-someone-their-BF-is-ruining-their-life-.html en-us Copyright 2006, Kickapps feeds@kickapps.com (FeedMaster) webmaster@kickapps.com (WebMaster) Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:33:11 GMT Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:49:24 GMT Kickapps Feeds 1.0 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss 60 {pics-1.1 "http://www.icra.org/ratingsv02.html" l gen true for "http://kickapps.com" r (nz 1 vz 1 lz 1 oz 1 cz 1 ) "http://www.rsac.org/ratingsv01.html" l gen true for "http://kickapps.com" r (n 0 s 0 v 0 l 0 )) Search Domain q http://kickapps.com/search/direct/ http://thejjb.com/reply/9041373/t/How-do-you-tell-someone-their-BF-is-ruining-their-life-.html#reply-9041373 You can tell her how you feel. It's cheesy, but try doing the 'I feel' statements rather than blaming and accusing. I have similar problems with my parents and it's hard to watch someone you love putting themselves in harms way and not being able to do anything. ]]> feeds@kickapps.com (folkbitts) http://thejjb.com/sreply/9041373 Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:49:24 PST http://thejjb.com/reply/9041362/t/How-do-you-tell-someone-their-BF-is-ruining-their-life-.html#reply-9041362
]]> feeds@kickapps.com (SharrywasBanned) http://thejjb.com/sreply/9041362 Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:46:44 PST http://thejjb.com/reply/9041351/t/How-do-you-tell-someone-their-BF-is-ruining-their-life-.html#reply-9041351 ]]> feeds@kickapps.com (flatxchewxlate) http://thejjb.com/sreply/9041351 Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:45:07 PST http://thejjb.com/reply/9041354/t/How-do-you-tell-someone-their-BF-is-ruining-their-life-.html#reply-9041354 KellySD wrote:

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You can't. She has to learn for herself, the hard way. Unfortunately.

]]> feeds@kickapps.com (SharrywasBanned) http://thejjb.com/sreply/9041354 Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:44:48 PST http://thejjb.com/reply/9041306/t/How-do-you-tell-someone-their-BF-is-ruining-their-life-.html#reply-9041306 feeds@kickapps.com (AudaciousAudrey) http://thejjb.com/sreply/9041306 Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:37:17 PST http://thejjb.com/reply/9041302/t/How-do-you-tell-someone-their-BF-is-ruining-their-life-.html#reply-9041302
Why don't you find her someone else? ]]> feeds@kickapps.com (MyDadIsBruceLee) http://thejjb.com/sreply/9041302 Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:36:25 PST http://thejjb.com/reply/9041304/t/How-do-you-tell-someone-their-BF-is-ruining-their-life-.html#reply-9041304 ]]> feeds@kickapps.com (KellySD) http://thejjb.com/sreply/9041304 Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:36:23 PST http://thejjb.com/reply/9041291/t/How-do-you-tell-someone-their-BF-is-ruining-their-life-.html#reply-9041291 Sorry. ]]> feeds@kickapps.com (merchasa) http://thejjb.com/sreply/9041291 Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:34:31 PST http://thejjb.com/topic/572159/t/How-do-you-tell-someone-their-BF-is-ruining-their-life-.html
She's so blind to the shit he's pulling. He's never done anything for her! Never taken her out to dinner, to the movies, never borrowed HER money when she was strapped. He rarely works, and when he does, it's never for long.

And now she's been giving him so much money and buying him stuff that she's putting herself in debt. She owes both me and my brother money and she's behind on all her bills.

I don't know what to do. She just tends to snap and recoil whenever anybody brings it up. I mean...I know she's lonely. My dad committed suicide nearly 10 years ago. I know she wants someone in her life. But... ]]> feeds@kickapps.com (flatxchewxlate) http://thejjb.com/topic/572159 Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:33:11 PST