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Ruben had been becoming increasingly anti-Britney (but only when it suited him, any time he thought he could get something out of her/Larry he was right back up her ass again) for a long time. He had a history of being fickle like that anyway and particularly after Kevin came on the scene, but by the time that letter from Fe came out it was already clear he was no longer a fan. For her to make such a thing public at all was a bad, bad idea but to do it through Ruben of all people was sheer stupidity, even if it was well intentioned.

I can understand being around Britney at that time would have been difficult.. She was ill and in denial, they miscalculated and sent her to a rehab program for something that wasn't her actual problem which only made her resentful on top of it all, and I'm guessing it was horrible for her friends/family... but if Britney wasn't listening in private, then she was never going to listen to somebody who was talking via the media. The last thing she needed was yet more of her life being public domain. Quite understandably, that would be a total breach of trust - it's a really bad idea to give somebody who is currently in denial and mistrustful of everyone in her circle a REASON to mistrust.


I liked Fe and I'm sure she did what she did with the best of intentions, I don't fault her for caring or even for having had enough, but going public was a dumb idea that was more harm than help.

Oh I don't think Fe *meant* harm at all. She really doesn't strike me as the type who would intentionally hurt anybody. I just think she really failed to think through what she did before she did it, because there is no way in hell that somebody who is in denial and mistrustful and pushing everybody away from her is going to take kindly to having members of her inner circle make all her crap public - lack of privacy being a problem long before she got ill - and particularly via an ex-fan who had just been getting huge publicity for closing down his site and trashing her of late. Far from getting through to her, that was the fastest way to ensure she felt betrayed and even more mistrustful and I think that should have been obvious.

She could have got any amount of exposure she wanted from anybody she wanted in her position, any of the major media outlets would have killed for that exclusive, and of all people she picked THAT guy. It was a well intentioned but terrible move.

Who says Britney hasn't got over it? Fe's got a new job somewhere else - even if they have privately reconciled or at least spoken/had communication begin again, we're not going to know about it because she's not going to be physically there as Larry is. I wouldn't assume one or the other.