MTAW-Yeah he's in law school. Don't know about meeting another girl.
Thanks, Dirty Coke for all your kindness.
Thanks, Dirty Coke for all your kindness.
My husband told me he doesn't think we should be married
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Posts: 2655 (07/25/2008 12:04 PM) |
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Dirty Coke |
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Posts: 11118 (07/25/2008 12:05 PM) JJB Smartass '08 |
KobesPrincess1982 wrote: You're welcome. |
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JCinWrappingPaper |
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Posts: 6324 (07/25/2008 12:05 PM) |
KobesPrincess I am really sorry about your husband. You should go home and talk to him. There's gotta be a way to contact him and at least ask if you guys
can discuss this! He can't just leave without a discussion - he at least OWES you THAT much.
Also that's really good that you have separate bank accounts and no credit cards. But go home and make sure he doesn't take your diamond jewelry or something. Who knows how sleazy he can get, now that he wants to leave you? I'm so sorry!!! I hope everything works out for the best. Also - Monkey, I'm sorry to hear about your husband. I may not be a very active poster at JJB but I remember all the cute pictures you posted of you guys and whatnot. I hope you get to see your daughter soon! |
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KobesPrincess1982 |
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Posts: 2656 (07/25/2008 12:08 PM) |
Thanks again, everyone. I really just needed to talk to someone.
I told one of my coworkers because I'm a mess working the front desk but thats it. Like I said I don't really know what to do. We talked all last night and this morning. |
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JulieAnne20 |
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Posts: 20269 (07/25/2008 12:08 PM) |
My ex left me around Christmas of 2006 with my 2 kids. I'm sorry you're going through this stress and worry. Same to you Monkeymonkey. And Monkey, hell no to him taking the baby. That's just wrong. Speaking as someone who has been through something similar, I just want to to reassure both of you that the end result is fine. I feel very at peace now, but it was tough being in the middle of it. Make sure you protect yourself legally. |
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doorear |
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Posts: 10306 (07/25/2008 12:08 PM) |
Go home sick and see whats going on.
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DunderMifflinInc |
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Posts: 4772 (07/25/2008 12:08 PM) |
KP-- I am so sorry you are going through this. There are a lot of cool people on JJB that can help lend an ear, so don't hesitate to vent. I wish you the
best.
Precious Amanda isn't so precious. |
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KobesPrincess1982 |
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Posts: 2657 (07/25/2008 12:10 PM) |
MoreThenAWoman414 wrote: Pretty much. I mean he has student loans and a part time job but I am pretty much the only source of income. And he'll go to his sister's. She lives here too. And hates me. So its perfect. |
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Dirty Coke |
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Posts: 11120 (07/25/2008 12:10 PM) JJB Smartass '08 |
DunderMifflinInc wrote: LOL. |
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PuraVidaPanama |
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Posts: 10588 (07/25/2008 12:12 PM) |
It sucks when parents are not supportive. I wish you the best
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KobesPrincess1982 |
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Posts: 2658 (07/25/2008 12:14 PM) |
Thanks. Like I said, I haven't told them anything yet. And don't really plan on it til I absolutely HAVE to.
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Dirty Coke |
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Posts: 11125 (07/25/2008 12:25 PM) JJB Smartass '08 |
KobesPrincess1982 wrote: I don't blame you. You have enough to deal with right now.
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KobesPrincess1982 |
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Posts: 2659 (07/25/2008 12:27 PM) |
Yeah, I am really dreading that conversation.
I'm still really hoping this blows over and we somehow work it out but I don't know.... |
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Dirty Coke |
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Posts: 11131 (07/25/2008 12:35 PM) JJB Smartass '08 |
Maybe a different counselor. |
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KobesPrincess1982 |
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Posts: 2660 (07/25/2008 12:47 PM) |
Maybe. I thought of that.
He sent me an email saying that a lot of it has to do with how we're not even sexually compatible. (I spelled that wrong) Thats always nice to hear.
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Mistress Darcy |
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Posts: 3147 (07/25/2008 12:51 PM) |
Not sexually compatible? How was the sex before marriage?
I am sorry to hear this I remember hearing you talk about your wedding and how happy you were (and I realize that sounds creepy). I hope things work out for
the best either way.
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Posts: 97080 (07/25/2008 12:52 PM) JC Fanatic '03
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KobesPrincess1982 wrote: Is he on the down low?
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JulieAnne20 |
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Posts: 20270 (07/25/2008 12:53 PM) |
Not sexually compatible? I'd worry he'd found someone else who he WAS compatible with.
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KobesPrincess1982 |
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Posts: 2661 (07/25/2008 12:55 PM) |
I don't even know. The sex has been a problem (for him) for a really long time.
He's the only guy I've been with so its never been a problem for me. But for him, he's always made it an issue. |
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AudaciousAudrey |
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Posts: 14371 (07/25/2008 12:55 PM) |
What do you mean the sex has been a problem? I don't really understand.
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I really do hope it works out for you.
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