You need to go home. You said you don't have children, but if you have assets and he is moving out, he could clean out the house. It is very difficult to
get those items back if you want them as he could claim he sold them, etc... Also, if you have a joint bank account with money it in, he could clean it out.
You need to get there first. I am assuming you are not buying your house if you are living in a house? Also, watch the joint credit cards if you have any.
You should call the credit card companies, get the current balance, explain the situation and cancel em, if they are joint or if he has one of your cards.
oops people are posting so fast, I didn't see my first one. sorry
oops people are posting so fast, I didn't see my first one. sorry
My sisters are married and when they've had problems, no matter what it is, my mom always lectures them about staying.
I'm sure it was expensive. Still, I just don't understand parents
wanting/expecting their children to stay in a bad marriage just because it's the "right" thing to do and/or because of money. I would never
advise someone to stay in a bad situation and be miserable. 
