dp...stupid slow fuku.
Single people, why do you think you're single?
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Posts: 3584 (08/11/2008 1:48 AM) |
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JTYDTRSexy |
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Posts: 762 (08/11/2008 1:48 AM) |
Dylishis wrote: i think i just said something around that area lol. |
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leesuh773 |
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Posts: 1326 (08/11/2008 1:49 AM) |
jain smith wrote: my roomie is my sister |
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Dirty Coke |
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Posts: 13355 (08/11/2008 1:49 AM) JJB Smartass '08 |
Dylishis wrote: Deeper issues, mah sistah. LMAO
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 Dylishis |
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Posts: 28949 (08/11/2008 1:50 AM) Most Outspoken '08 |
Wuut?
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Samantha James |
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Posts: 2165 (08/11/2008 1:52 AM) |
I'm single because I don't think anyone wants me. But what can you do?
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Dirty Coke |
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Posts: 13356 (08/11/2008 1:55 AM) JJB Smartass '08 |
Dylishis wrote: I was fucking with you! Duhhhh.
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HayHay38 |
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Posts: 11319 (08/11/2008 1:56 AM) |
Dylishis wrote: Honestly, I don't know how you got that I moped around or whined about being fat out of me asking my friends advice about what they think the issue
might be. A few guys at my work have just randomly said that they just don't understand why anyone hasn't scooped me up by now and if they were
younger and/or not married, they would ask me out. That's been WITHOUT my asking. I fall in more of the category of the cool chic that ends up being the
"best bud" as opposed to the girlfriend...and I H-A-T-E that with a passion. But as far as random guys...I still think it's because I've
gained weight.
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babylulu |
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Posts: 23276 (08/11/2008 1:56 AM) |
It's probably got something to do with my attitude. Apparently I have a pretty smile, but I don't smile very often (unless I'm tipsy, or genuinely
happy.) I have really low self-esteem and I put others before me. I do thinks for others that I know they wouldn't do for me in return. I'm also really
shy, and don't talk much in class, and because I don't stop and say hi to random strangers, they think I'm a bitch. My pretty smile is all I have
going for me, because the rest of me is pretty annoying and weird.
I think I choose to be indifferent about many things because I care too much what people think of me. I think I'm a nice person, but I don't know if people are my friends because they like me for who i am or they're just using me and I haven't figured it out yet. Like most people (if not all people), I have issues, I think I trust people too much, then when they betray me it hurts like a bitch. Then again I'm pretty sensitive (but I have gotten a lot better.) Oh and when I'm passionate about something, I come off as being angry because I'm indifferent. So, either I need to work on my tones/gestures a lot more or they need to work on reading my tones/gestures more accurately. I want people to acknowledge my existence but if they notice too much, then I get even more awkward. Despite what some people have said, I'm very certain that i'm being used to get to my other prettier friends. For the ones that are really obvious about it, i'm polite to them but I don't like them. For the ones that are harder to decipher, I can tell because they treat me differently then they treat my prettier friends. Last thing, I've got pretty high standards when it comes to guys.
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Dylishis |
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Posts: 28952 (08/11/2008 1:58 AM) Most Outspoken '08 |
Dirty Coke wrote:
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Dirty Coke |
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Posts: 13360 (08/11/2008 2:01 AM) JJB Smartass '08 |
Dyl, I just think you're one of those girls who doesn't think anyone is good enough for you. Not saying that's a bad thing, because it's better
to have really high standards versus very low standards.
You'll meet someone who sweeps you off your feet. 
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Dylishis |
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Posts: 28955 (08/11/2008 2:12 AM) Most Outspoken '08 |
Yeah, I guess.
Now it seems like it's just tougher to find a guy that at least...floats my boat even a LITTLE bit. I'm never into any of them and I know when I post about it, it just seems like I'm being a picky bitch. It's not their fault most times that I don't like them back. I guess when I'm just not that into them, they can't do anything right. 
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babycom |
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Posts: 885 (08/11/2008 2:15 AM) |
I'm starting to think I sabotage my relationships. I always seem to go for unavailable guys, or ones I know don't want anything serious. As soon as I
meet someone who does I always distance myself from them. I don't know why I do this!!!! ISSUES!!!
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guesswhatelse |
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Posts: 23336 (08/11/2008 2:20 AM) |
I know what my problem is (or problems are
). I can't count how many times I've had a single conversation with a "potential" and one
thing he said stopped my interest in its tracks. People in general just annoy me, and I can't imagine myself willingly attaching myself to someone else
when I know he's just going to get on my nerves.
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Dylishis |
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Posts: 28956 (08/11/2008 2:24 AM) Most Outspoken '08 |
LMAO Yup.
Either get on my nerves or just bore me to death. Nothing/no one excites me really.
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Jeannine8 |
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Posts: 5932 (08/11/2008 2:30 AM) |
I know why i'm single; I'm picky, and I don't get out as often as I should.
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Dirty Coke |
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Posts: 13372 (08/11/2008 2:31 AM) JJB Smartass '08 |
Dylishis wrote: That's why I said the last part! You're going to meet a guy one day who just rocks your shit, seriously. LOL. I know it sucks now, but when you
meet a guy you're really into, it'll be worth it.
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Hollywood Whore 2005 |
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Posts: 3728 (08/11/2008 2:36 AM) |
The guys I like never ask me out and the ones that do hit on me look like Quasimodo or are old enough to be my father.
I also think my problem has to do with weight, ever since I started college, i've gained so much weight, which sucks, because when i was in high school i had guys hitting on me all the time. And because I have gained weight (I'm working on getting it off though!!!) it has affected my social life quite a lot, i don't go out as much and therefore don't meet at many guys. |
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forever121young |
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Posts: 8872 (11/22/2019 3:18 PM) |
'I can't let anybody in. I crave your attention until you give it to me and then I get over it and run the other way. I'll never get close to anyone that way. I just end up in what I've deemed "flirtationships" where I go back and forth with someone to the point that I realize hey something could really come out of this and then I just stop. :nod I'm the same way with potentials. My longest "relationship" has been three months... I'm almost 27. The guys I like never ask me out and the ones that do hit on me look like Quasimodo or are old enough to be my father. God. I hate this. I always feel like I'm downgrading if I ever accept a date from someone that's not so cute. This makes me sound so superfiscial but I'm a firm believer in the "people should be with those who are at their same level of attractiveness" mantra. Either I'm really a toad and just think too highly of myself or all those really hot guys I'm initerested in think I am a toad 
I can't count how many times I've had a single conversation with a "potential" and one thing he said stopped my interest in its tracks. YES! This too. I admit that I'm picky but is it so much to ask for the guy I'm interested to have a job or atleast have a direction in life? It's so aggravating. |
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moussemaker |
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Posts: 13371 (08/11/2008 8:46 AM) |
I like to be alone.
Just thought about it yesterday. Sharing a place with somebody would drive me crazy 
I like to go out and have good times and 
but I cannot stand to spend 24/7 with somebody. |
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you always so nasty jain
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