It sounds so stupid, but for some reason I am. I'm 22.
Is anyone else ashamed to be a virgin?
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Is anyone else ashamed to be a virgin? |
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Posts: 51031 (08/17/2008 9:50 PM) |
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Just A Little Stitious |
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Posts: 6937 (08/17/2008 9:51 PM) |
Nope, because it's by choice.
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Valerie Me |
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Posts: 21012 (08/17/2008 9:51 PM) |
No.
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Introversion |
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Posts: 1601 (08/17/2008 9:53 PM) |
I am. I'm 25 and even though it is technically by choice, it still bothers me. I certainly haven't chosen not to find anyone I feel comfortable/happy
with.
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sweet banana cake |
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Posts: 804 (08/17/2008 9:54 PM) |
WTF is there to be ashamed about? I am 26 and I wish I was still a virgin. I am slept with a few of the lousiest, sleaziest, most dishonest mofo guys ever. I
wish I had the self-control to have told them know.
Be proud that you still have moral integrity. Being ashamed to be a virgin is like being ashamed not to have STDs. |
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Kimkim232 |
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Posts: 51032 (08/17/2008 9:55 PM) |
See i've had chances. but I barely liked the guys so I never did. I should be happy I chose that, but sometimes I wish I got it over with, so I
wouldn't feel like the virgin outcast.
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sweet banana cake |
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Posts: 806 (08/17/2008 9:58 PM) |
Do you feel like an outcast that you didn't get knocked up in high school?
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Introversion |
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Posts: 1603 (08/17/2008 9:58 PM) |
Exactly Kim, and I don't think people who aren't in this situation will truly understand it.
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this is a call |
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Posts: 5532 (08/17/2008 9:59 PM) |
No.
I am 19, and I just haven't found anyone I want to have sex with yet. No big deal really. I mean sometimes I wish I would just get it done and over with,  but I am not ashamed or anything.
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LilBabyWithTheSundressOn |
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Posts: 36554 (08/17/2008 9:59 PM) Friendliest JJBer '07 |
I lost mine at 18 but until then I was...not ashamed per se but embarrassed about it. It was only coming here and seeing how many ladies on the board
didn't lose theirs until they were well into their 20s that I realized I was far from the only 18 year old virgin.
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MusicLuvr1220 |
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Posts: 6465 (08/17/2008 10:02 PM) |
We are a rare breed
 I'm 21. Although I havent yet found someone that I feel is right, I'd probably still wait some time even if I had.
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Minderella84 |
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Posts: 2164 (08/17/2008 10:02 PM) |
Being at virgin at any age is not something to be ashamed about. You should be PROUD!
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Mistress Darcy |
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Posts: 3999 (08/17/2008 10:03 PM) |
I don't think being a virgin or not being a virgin should be something to be ashamed of or proud of. It just is.
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August86 |
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Posts: 5098 (08/17/2008 10:03 PM) |
I wish I was still a virgin. The guy a lost it to is a total douchebag.
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sweet banana cake |
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Posts: 808 (08/17/2008 10:05 PM) |
If I was 30 or 35 and still a virgin, then I might feel ashamed. But perhaps not.
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Lauriestar |
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Posts: 10111 (08/17/2008 10:05 PM) |
sweet banana cake wrote: The hell? What does moral integrity have to do with it? Just because someone has had sex does not make them morally bankrupt, and it's obnoxious for
you to imply that. Furthermore, having sex does not mean you'll get STDs, and saying it does makes me think you're a fanatical Christian crazy.
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Julez |
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Posts: 3768 (08/17/2008 10:05 PM) |
You should feel proud. I stupidly did it because I was the only one in college that I knew hadn't lost their virginity yet and I regret it everyday now
because the guy was a major douche bag.
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Lauriestar |
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Posts: 10112 (08/17/2008 10:06 PM) |
Mistress Darcy wrote: Exactly. |
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lonely33 |
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Posts: 1812 (08/17/2008 10:07 PM) |
I would be if I knew I the reason why I was was because no one wanted to have sex with me.
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LaurieStar
When does school start back up for you? |
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IMissKD |
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Posts: 468 (08/17/2008 10:08 PM) |
I do not feel ashamed. I'm 24 and very proud to be a virgin
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