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On several ocassions lately I feel like my boyfriend is just becoming TOO comfortable with our relationship or something, and it's starting to make him just seem inconsiderate to me. Don't get me wrong, he is a GREAT guy, amazing boyfriend, family person, super smart, I want to marry him someday. But right now I dont know if this is worth saying something or if I should just let it go.

My mom has Hepatitis and was going for her first treatment out of town and left me to watch our puppy for the night while my dad took her. I asked my BF to stay over with me that night so I wouldn't be sitting here alone and bored with nothing to do but worry about her. He said if he got off work early enough he would come over (he bartends some nights, this was one of them, and sometimes it can be pretty late). Well, he got off at like 9pm and called me to see what was up, me expecting him to say he would be over soon since he got off so early. And he says "I think I'm just gonna stay home. I'm sure you'll be fine. it's not a big deal." Well, to me it sort of was. I really just wanted his company for the night. After I sounded disappointed he ended up coming over but I know it was just because he didn't want me to be sad/pissed off, and not because he wanted to. I know, it's a little thing, but still kind of hurt my feelings when he knew about this ahead of time.

Then, he had class yesterday til 8 and earlier in the day we planned to do something when he was done since we both had the night off from work. I started my first day back at classes (I took 2 years off and it was a big deal to go back for me) today at 8AM. He got out of class, called me, asked me if I wanted to come over/sleep over and hang out or whatever. He must have mentioned me having 8am class the next day 6 times, so he obviously knew about it and kept telling me how proud of me he was/is. So we planned for me to just go to school from his apartment this morning (I sleep there a lot so this was no big deal or nothing new). Well, I get there around 9 and when I think of "hanging out" and being invited over there, I think of us hanging out together or doing something, even if it's just watching TV... but it turns out he spends the whole time playing his stupid Xbox and pretty much ignoring me. So around 12:30 I try to fall asleep and it's impossible with all of this noise from the TV and the brightness. At around 1:30 I STILL can't fall asleep and I tell him, he just says "sorry, we never can all get online at the same time to play so...." and continues playing. I say "maybe I should just go home"... at 1:30AM when I live a good 20 minutes away and have class at 8, and he says "Whatever you wanna do". Doesn't offer to just turn it off since he knows tomorrow is a big day for me, barely even acknowledging what I said. I ended up going in the living room and attempting to fall asleep on the couch.

I just do SO MUCH for him, always putting him first. When I'm with him I give him my undivided attention. He did this for a long time too, but now it's just like it's no big deal to him if I'm there or not and he just does whatever he'd do if I weren't there.. even though HE invited me and wanted me to come over. I mean, I wouldn't have cared to just stay home and not see him last night, all he had to do was say he had plans to play xbox with his friends and he'd be up pretty late (it was 4am when he finally shut it off). But he made it seem like he wanted to see me, and then acted like I wasn't even there and made it impossible for me to fall asleep.

I'm just feeling so weird. I still get so excited to see him and be with him and I feel like to him it doesn't matter either way. I don't know that that's true, and I'm sure he'd tell me otherwise, but I just feel so down about it lately. It could be all in my head, and I'm aware these are MINOR problems in a relationship and nothing to really make a big deal about, but my feelings are just sort of hurt when he acts inconsiderate like that.

Am I ridiculous? Please tell me if I am. Seriously.