My friend has been crushing on this guy, and he finally asked her out to drinks/dinner on Friday (with a group, but still!). She's going to go but said
that even though she's batshit crazy about him, she couldn't "date" him seriously because he's beautiful and has a perfect body, and she
doesn't want him to see her naked and her fat stomach. Now, she's not fat to me, maybe about 30 pounds (?) overweight, but I think she's so pretty,
and obviously he does, too, and I can't believe she'd turn him down because of this. I mean, I don't get it. Have any of you done this, or would
you?
Would You Reject Your Hot Crush b/c You Felt Fat?
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Posts: 1662 (08/28/2008 12:02 AM) |
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Posts: 54654 (08/28/2008 12:03 AM) |
I wouldn't do that.
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Posts: 14797 (08/28/2008 12:03 AM) |
Thats a really dumb reason to turn someone down.
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Posts: 11607 (08/28/2008 12:05 AM) |
I have rejected someone because I felt self conscious. It's sad but what can I say.
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Posts: 1663 (08/28/2008 12:08 AM) |
aftergl0w wrote:But did you tell the guy that? Or just brush him off? And I feel bad for her because she's awesome and he's funny and I think he'd really lift her spirits. I've been trying to boost her up without being too obvious, but she's not having it. 
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Posts: 1335 (08/28/2008 12:08 AM) |
I understand, and I've done it before.
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Posts: 11608 (08/28/2008 12:10 AM) |
Aikko wrote:God no. 
He wasn't really anyone special though so I don't feel like I missed out or anything. It'd be different if it was a crush. |
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Posts: 36739 (08/28/2008 12:12 AM) |
Yes.
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Posts: 23005 (08/28/2008 12:12 AM) |
I'm currently doing that.
I feel like there is too much pressure for me to look the way he remembers me (in high school) and...yeah.
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Posts: 1667 (08/28/2008 12:25 AM) |
But what if he's supposed to be the love of your life!
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Posts: 18197 (08/28/2008 12:29 AM) |
Sadly, yes. There's that nagging thought in my heading telling me that he was too good looking for me.
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Posts: 9218 (08/28/2008 12:36 AM) Best Screen Name '07 |
No. Obviously her weight doesn't matter to him if he's asking her out, I don't understand why she'd be self-conscious about it.
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Posts: 4536 (08/28/2008 1:01 AM) |
I wouldn't. That is his problem, not mine and if he asks me out, then it's ok with me ,too
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Posts: 1669 (08/28/2008 1:08 AM) |
That's what I think, too, Bobbee, but she doesn't agree.
And SH, I think it's because it's her crush and even though the guy isn't my type, he's an Adonis so I think that's what's throwing her off. Because she's gone out with guys before that are just okay looking and she was fine. |
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