Nonchalant wrote:Thanks... I just hope to find a non-asshole some day
Wow, at that holiday comment. Sad thing is I knew some dudes who actually broke up with girls during the holidays then try to get them back after the new year.
But really, it is a cop, unless he saw the relationship totally different then how you saw it. If everything was as good as you say, he will be still with you. He was looking for a way out, and you gave him a way out.
But anyway sorry, but if he does that you, you do deserve better.
and btw, we are not all assholes
I'm very upset... Guys are assholes...
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Posts: 344 (11/12/2008 6:58 PM) |
taniaoakley wrote:I agree with this. Good luck 
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Posts: 13594 (11/12/2008 6:59 PM) Most Mysterious '08 |
he's a big bitch. i'm going to be amazed if you hold out in silence.
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Posts: 7325 (11/12/2008 7:00 PM) |
Sleepn wrote:I don't even know what to say. I'm so hurt and really upset. Like I don't know where the fuck this came from especially since we were talking about going away together during February break. Like we were planning ahead. No I dunno what I'm going to do with these hockey tickets - does anyone want to go to the Ranger/Islanders game? |
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Posts: 13156 (11/12/2008 7:01 PM) |
IHeartDrDorian wrote: I can just about guarantee you will. It never fails...something like this happens, then as soon as you're not thinking of finding a boyfriend, BOOM!! ...the right guy appears! 
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Posts: 13595 (11/12/2008 7:02 PM) Most Mysterious '08 |
good luck and have fun finding your next boyfriend! now you know what not to look for or settle for.
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IHeartDrDorian |
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Posts: 7327 (11/12/2008 7:03 PM) |
Sleepn wrote:  So everyone seems to think that I should be done with him haha
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Stringer Bell 32 |
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Posts: 661 (11/12/2008 7:09 PM) |
how work is really busy, and how he'll have no time to devote to me and that I deserve someone who can give me more and who won't be as possessive and jealous as him. yeah those are the lame excuses guys use when they're just not feeling you anymore |
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Posts: 126 (11/12/2008 7:09 PM) |
Anyone who breaks up with someone via texting....deserves to be alone. I would never take him back.
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Posts: 3758 (11/12/2008 7:11 PM) |
IHeartDrDorian wrote:  Definitely. At least now you can find a guy that wants to be with you no matter what the circumstances are. Because if the love is real, the guy will
not offer up lame excuses on why the relationship won't work. So girl, you definitely got you a blessing in disguise!
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Posts: 7329 (11/12/2008 7:13 PM) |
catNloco2 wrote: Yea, very true. I'm so done |
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Posts: 17834 (11/12/2008 7:17 PM) |
What's the big deal? He said he can't be in a relationship this holiday season. So then date other guys and wait till January 1 and start dating him
again since the holiday season will be over with.
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Posts: 7330 (11/12/2008 7:20 PM) |
Sham99 wrote:The big deal is that he's a coward and did via text message while I was at work |
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Posts: 3761 (11/12/2008 7:22 PM) |
Sham99 wrote: Yeah, but life doesn't work like that. A guy can't just expect you to sit around and wait for him until it's convenient. You either want to be with someone or you don't. Breaks are just really stupid. |
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Posts: 17836 (11/12/2008 7:26 PM) |
well he should have done it to your face but if he did, maybe he felt it would be too dramatic and you would argue and the break up wouldn't go smoothly.
Did you recently start dating him? I know you said you were friends for 4 years. If you were dating 4 years and he did this via text, then he would be a huge
jerk. But if you were dating for like a month.. it doesn't seem as bad?
I hope you guys can work out your differences and find way to co-exist. |
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Posts: 1398 (11/12/2008 7:30 PM) |
catNloco2 wrote:Yeah why reward him for being an asshole? A lot of jerky guys will break up for the holidays so they can sleep around and not have to buy Christmas gifts. I don't think taking him back after this behavior is exactly smart advice. |
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Posts: 392 (11/12/2008 7:33 PM) |
It sounds like hes wanting you to hate him. Whatever that was, hes an asshole and for him to do a 180* turn around like that you DO deserve better.
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Posts: 13123 (11/12/2008 8:15 PM) |
Sounds like he's been listening to Tom Leykis.
Move on. Hell, grab a girlfriend and go to the hockey game! |
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Posts: 42768 (11/12/2008 8:17 PM) Most Likely to be Online '02 |
Or he's a late-blooming Halloweenie! (Guys who bail out of relationships before the holidays -- it's from the very awesome "Between Boyfriends
Book" by Cindy Chupack.)
Definitely get a girl friend and go to the game. Have a good time, drink some beers! Don't stay home and wallow! |
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Posts: 19217 (11/12/2008 8:20 PM) Biggest Know It All '09
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glamsoda wrote:What does it say about that? |
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