How do you deal with rude people?
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sunkissed xo |
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Posts: 1683 (01/17/2009 6:32 PM) |
Ignore them until they're out of my life, but if i have to encounter them again, i'm nice to them.
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Consuela Bananahammock |
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Posts: 19492 (01/17/2009 6:50 PM) Best Username '04 |
I ignore it.
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StarsareBlind |
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Posts: 230 (01/17/2009 6:59 PM) |
I never realized it before this post, but if it's a guy, I think I will always tell them something, but if it's a girl I might just give them an evil
look.
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mybutterflydreams |
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Posts: 3495 (01/17/2009 7:06 PM) |
Purplelilac82 wrote: |
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Capricorn1229 |
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Posts: 10465 (01/17/2009 7:07 PM) Most Likely To Respond with a Gif '09
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mybutterflydreams wrote: OR call them on it nicest way possible.
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bluefoxx23 |
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Posts: 7508 (01/17/2009 7:08 PM) |
depends on the situation. i am either rude right back since i am the queen bitch after all. or if i really want to get under their skin i am extra nice to them
and just smile a lot. it tends to send really rude/upset people over the edge. love it! haha. do that to the ignorant customers at work all the time.
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Sleepn |
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Posts: 15409 (01/17/2009 8:41 PM) Most Mysterious '08 |
it helps that i count on people to be bitches -male & female alike. there's no surprise and no expectation of kindness.
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Alex the Goob |
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Posts: 44722 (01/17/2009 8:42 PM) |
Purplelilac82 wrote: I don't "deal" with them, I just ignore them. |
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Purplelilac82 |
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Posts: 12020 (01/17/2009 8:43 PM) |
Alex the Goob wrote: Fair enough. |
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noname185 |
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Posts: 547 (01/17/2009 8:44 PM) |
I feel if your really nice to rude people your just end up feeling stupid.
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DarthRedimo |
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Posts: 636 (01/17/2009 8:45 PM) |
I am usually nice to people that can spit on my food. Fuck everyone else. Sometimes I am mean to my mom but I don't think she would spit in my food.
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Purplelilac82 |
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Posts: 12021 (01/17/2009 8:46 PM) |
noname185 wrote: I'll admit, I've felt that way at times. No good deed ever goes unpunished. Most times I just ignore them. They're not going to rattle me and it bring these people great pleasure to see you distraught. |
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noname185 |
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Posts: 549 (01/17/2009 8:48 PM) |
^Those people just like putting people down.
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HolyCannoli |
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Posts: 15 (01/17/2009 8:48 PM) |
I just try to be as polite as possible or remove myself from the situation. I despise confrontation.
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Stringer Bell 32 |
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Posts: 1180 (01/17/2009 8:49 PM) |
Get rude right back at their assess
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Certainly Not Dcutie |
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Posts: 14023 (01/17/2009 8:50 PM) |
Make the feel stupid and really awkward. I love it.
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suthruncutie |
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Posts: 4013 (01/17/2009 8:51 PM) |
Ignore. They're being rude to get a reaction.
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Purplelilac82 |
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Posts: 12023 (01/17/2009 8:51 PM) |
Certainly Not Dcutie wrote: How do you do this....Please dish! |
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HolyCannoli |
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Posts: 16 (01/17/2009 8:52 PM) |
Rawk On, I witnessed a sort of similar situation last night. I went to a restaurant with some friends. And my best friends cousin (who is likely to snap at
anything) was cold waiting inside and someone was holding the door open. So she yells at them, "Shut the fucking door, shit, it's cold" and the
person gave her a stank look and closed the door. But they kept exchanging mutual stank faces and she was like "I'll fucking punch you, bitch, yada
yada yada" And they both kept inching towards eachother. I don't understand people like that.
If it were me, I would have just snuggled more into my coat and just bare it. But if it was completely unbearable, I would have politely asked and apologized with a huge smile. Up until that point I was just baring it. |
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ZenGospelSinging |
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Posts: 150 (01/17/2009 8:54 PM) |
Looking them in the eyes and saying "well, that was rude" works well too.
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OR call them on it nicest way possible.
