over move along. woulda kept it going if it werent for this one stupid naysayer
JJB A GAY BOY NEEDS YOUR HELP. This is *too* fucking weird
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Posts: 1093 (03/30/2009 1:39 AM) |
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Posts: 465 (03/30/2009 1:42 AM) |
man i was gonna type something then you edited it lol.
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DrHome |
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Posts: 133 (03/30/2009 1:44 AM) |
So if you're not sure if you're gay, then the next logical thing you must be is a girl? Jesus Christ...
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Posts: 1094 (03/30/2009 1:47 AM) |
I'll say this much, JUST for you: I'm much more comfortable in my own skin now. Before, there were thoughts (read: thoughts, not considerations) that
maybe, MAYBE it would've been easier if I had been born a girl. But actually, I love being a guy right now, and I can pull off masculine pretty well, too.
At school, a few ppl were actually surprised I was gay. So that's all.
For anyone else who was interested in reading, ya'll can thanks DrHomes for being such a jerkwad. Edit: final edit. last post! ovaaaaa. any GLBT feel free to chip in tonight/tmr/whenever if you wish, but i aint sayin nothin no more. gnight! im going to bed thanks to meds =D
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Posts: 24732 (03/30/2009 1:49 AM) |
desertwonder wrote:  So, low self-esteem lead you to pose as another gender? I have low self-esteem too and I wouldn't pose as a guy. In terms of not being sure if
you're gay or not...I can't help you with that, not sure the late night crew is going to be able to help out much with that either. There are gay
JJBers on here. Find one of them and maybe they can help you with figuring that out. Try going on a separate casual date with both genders of your real
friends and maybe that'll help with your decision? You might be bi? Why would you not being sure of your orientation lead you pose as a girl anyway?
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Posts: 5227 (03/30/2009 1:55 AM) |
AHHHHHH! I MISSED! WHAT HAPPENED??????!!!!!!!!
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Posts: 58266 (03/30/2009 1:58 AM) |
Jloveandjlo wrote:THIS! |
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Posts: 623 (03/30/2009 1:59 AM) Best Use of Emoticon award '09
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i stay missin stuff.
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Posts: 467 (03/30/2009 1:59 AM) |
well desert as long as you are comfortable in your own skin thats all that maters. dont pay attention to ppl like drhomes, somebody is always gonna have
something bad to say no matter what. haters gon hate brutha lol
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Posts: 134 (03/30/2009 2:43 AM) |
OP is a gay boy and met another guy online. They have been talking on MSN messenger or whatever for almost a year. OP is gay (and male) but pretended to be a
straight girl. The guy he has been talking to is also a gay male but he was pretending to be a straight male. Both have recently come clean to each other and
now online boy is being distant with OP. OP is "freaking out and omg super scared!!!!111" and feels his online boy might have problems. Even though
OP pretended to be a completely different gender...OP claims he pretended to be a girl because he didn't know if he was really gay or not. Because we all
know that when you don't know if you're gay or not, the logical thing to do is to form an identity of the opposite sex to online love interests.
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Posts: 3952 (03/30/2009 2:47 AM) |
OP sounds nuts.
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Posts: 624 (03/30/2009 2:50 AM) Best Use of Emoticon award '09
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that's funny
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Posts: 39919 (03/30/2009 4:53 AM) |
curiousgeoff wrote:Thank you! |
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Posts: 11 (03/30/2009 5:12 AM) |
Wow. Psycho.
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Posts: 10485 (03/30/2009 12:23 PM) |
man, I'm kinda sad this post ended up all edited and stuff. I wanted to see where it ended up
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Posts: 16291 (03/30/2009 12:28 PM) |
Awe, I'm sorry. This post is so sad. I hope everything works out!
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Posts: 3553 (03/30/2009 12:56 PM) |
yea sounds like the whole thing was laced in insecurity, and you admit that, so I guess that a good step
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