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I'm tired of being the guy and always expected... |
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Posts: 1783 (04/06/2009 8:56 PM) Favorite Newcomer '09
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To make the move...
Like, what gives?!
A while back, I had a girl ask me, "Are you gonna ask me out, yet???"  REALLY???
It wouldn't hurt if you chicks did it for a change.
Do you females usually expect the guy to do it???
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 JaneTimberlake |
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Posts: 62340 (04/06/2009 8:57 PM) JJBer of the Year |
I used to expect the guy to do it but I'm super impatient so now I don't care about making the first move.
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Posts: 95 (04/06/2009 8:57 PM) |
yes... generally thats how it is...
a few girls will make the first move on me... but 90% of the time the guy does it... |
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Posts: 39556 (04/06/2009 8:59 PM) Best Fan Fic Writer '08 |
I don't expect guys to always make the move as if it just has to be them that does the asking, but in my case since I'm too chicken shit to do it they
always wind up doing it anyway.
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Posts: 27585 (04/06/2009 9:02 PM) |
I have no problem making the first move. I don't get why girls are like that.
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OhManImScrewed |
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Posts: 16096 (04/06/2009 9:02 PM) |
Yeah, sometimes I feel bad for guys always expected to make the first move. But we are kind of conditioned to think that it's the right way to do it.
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Posts: 45 (04/06/2009 9:02 PM) |
Heres the thing with that. It depends on the guy I mean If we don't think its time for us to make the move we are not going to ask. You all have to give us
some hints. And don't tell me you do. Cuz the ones you do are normally very small like "Oh I gave him the wink or the hug, so why didn't it
work." What the hell does that mean lol?
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LimitedRetroOG |
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Posts: 1786 (04/06/2009 10:24 PM) Favorite Newcomer '09
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I'm gonna bump this once.
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Posts: 18098 (04/06/2009 10:28 PM) |
yes
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muah |
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Posts: 708 (04/06/2009 10:28 PM) |
I like the repeated :thisisterrible type faces, they add effect.
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Posts: 28847 (04/06/2009 10:29 PM) Chris Fanatic '03 |
Maybe if guys weren't such assholes girls wouldn't be so scared to ask.
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Posts: 23965 (04/06/2009 10:30 PM) Biggest Know It All '09
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I don't make the first move because there's no reason to. There are plenty of guys out there who are willing to make the first move. The guy is the
aggressor, the hunter, so it just seems more natural for him to do it. I'm not totally against making the first move, I've just never needed to.
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DifferentialDiagnosis |
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Posts: 720 (04/06/2009 10:33 PM) |
Because every book written for women about men says you shouldn't make the first move.
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jc4me18 |
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Posts: 13570 (04/07/2009 10:06 AM) |
Because when girls make the first move they suddenly become "psycho, needy, clingy, obsessive weirdos who expect a ring in a week and to get married soon
after and pop out 10 kids"
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"pursued" a guy, even pretty casually,the guy gets freaked out and runs away. Not worth it.
They don't make movies like He's Just Not That Into You for no reason! |
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elites renee |
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Posts: 21661 (04/07/2009 10:08 AM) |
I'll make the first move to get a number or something, but I'd never be the one to ask a man to be my boyfriend, or to marry me. It just isn't my
style.
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