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Just hypothetically speaking... |
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Posts: 18065 (06/16/2009 12:30 PM) |
Say close friend since 3rd grade was getting married and they asked you to read during the ceremony in their wedding...which meant you would attend the
rehearsal. If your boyfriend of nearly 2 years said he didn't want to go to the wedding rehearsal because of a kickball game he was playing in (yes,
kickball...a kid sport that 26 year-olds still play)...would you be annoyed...hypothetically of course...
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muah |
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Posts: 1330 (06/16/2009 12:31 PM) |
No. Does it really matter if the bf goes to the rehearsal or not? Why would he go anyways, just to watch you? As long as he's at the wedding, I
wouldn't care.
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Posts: 4656 (06/16/2009 12:31 PM) |
No, as long as a guy isn't late or misses his own wedding, he's allowed to be late or skip any other weddings.
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Posts: 62202 (06/16/2009 12:31 PM) |
Yes.
Edit: Oh wait, I misread that. I thought it said would you be annoyed if he didn't want YOU to go to the rehersal.  But there's no reason for him
to go, so...no.
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Posts: 6760 (06/16/2009 12:33 PM) |
Him missing the rehearsal would not bother me. If he missed the wedding it would bother me.
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Posts: 18499 (06/16/2009 12:33 PM) |
I'd be annoyed that he didn't want to go to the rehersal dinner with me as my date. Not at all at the actual rehersal.
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LadyCaro9 |
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Posts: 18066 (06/16/2009 12:34 PM) |
He was invited to go by the bride and groom. Typically, with our friends at least, significant others of the wedding party, etc attend the wedding rehearsal.
I told him I didn't care. I'm nervous to read, so it would have been nice to have him there. But I know that in the grand scheme of life, this isn't a biggie. I guess I would have just not given it a second thought had the roles been reversed. |
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Posts: 1332 (06/16/2009 12:34 PM) |
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Posts: 108610 (06/16/2009 12:34 PM) JC Fanatic '03
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lmao, no. BF can go to his kickball game. People CAN do things without their SO's from time to time.
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Posts: 18067 (06/16/2009 12:35 PM) |
I'd be annoyed that he didn't want to go to the rehersal dinner with me as my date. Not at all at the actual rehersal.That's precisely what I'm feeling. Not annoyed he doesn't want to go...just not go with me as his date...because of kickball.
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Posts: 18068 (06/16/2009 12:36 PM) |
I know Lisa...I was just asking hypothetically.
 We do things w/o each other a lot (I love my "me" time) I'm just nervous.
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Posts: 18459 (06/16/2009 12:42 PM) Best Newcomer '06
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It wouldn't bother me.
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Posts: 16865 (06/16/2009 12:42 PM) |
I would feel the same. A little bummed that he didn't want to come with me just to be with me, but it's not all that important if he's at the
rehearsal or not.
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Posts: 18069 (06/16/2009 12:46 PM) |
I would feel the same. A little bummed that he didn't want to come with me just to be with me, but it's not all that important if he's at the rehearsal or not.Thanks guys. No biggie in the grand scheme of things. Definitely not "battle" worthy.  I'll get my nerves shaken out and enjoy some wine at dinner. 
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Posts: 50259 (06/16/2009 12:51 PM) |
muah wrote: |
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