the marriage would last?
Would you agree to be a bridesmaid/MOH if you didn't think
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Would you agree to be a bridesmaid/MOH if you didn't think |
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Posts: 2271 (07/01/2009 8:40 PM) |
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BackToReality |
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Posts: 18098 (07/01/2009 8:41 PM) |
Yeah, because it'd be my best friend asking me to do it. And I'd do anything for her.
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YodaManSkeeto |
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Posts: 2035 (07/01/2009 8:42 PM) JJB Therapist '07 |
Sure. There's always the possibility you're wrong so you should support your friend.
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Samantha James |
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Posts: 14455 (07/01/2009 8:46 PM) |
Sure.
 I would be like  the whole
time but I would participate. 
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Ducky Luv |
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Posts: 25932 (07/01/2009 8:47 PM) |
Yes. I was a bridesmaid in a wedding I'm SURE will not last. She's my friend and it's up to her to make her own decisions/mistakes.
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ItsGonnaBeMe4JLB |
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Posts: 1315 (07/01/2009 8:49 PM) |
I was in one I don't think will last. But I love my friends no matter what!
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HappyCori |
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Posts: 362 (07/01/2009 8:56 PM) |
I have said no to my sister...I would not stand next to the train wreck waiting to happen. I couldnt. It was hard, my family was pissed....But it turned out to
be her abusive husband, ex-husband and husband again.
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dogfoot75 |
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Posts: 862 (07/01/2009 9:03 PM) |
I was. I was respecting my friend's decision when other people had raised concerns. It's lasted a couple years and seems to be going well, so I guess I
was wrong...
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addicted2stars |
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Posts: 18094 (07/01/2009 9:05 PM) |
i have agreed to be a bridesmaid and their relationship didn't last past the first dress fitting.
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Samantha James |
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Posts: 14461 (07/01/2009 10:42 PM) |
addicted2stars wrote:
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OCcaligirl |
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Posts: 6049 (07/01/2009 10:44 PM) |
I was MOH for one. And sure enough she is contemplating leaving him.
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 Hp GaL04 |
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Posts: 38801 (07/01/2009 10:46 PM) Most Dramatic '07 |
BackToReality wrote: |
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MissOscar |
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Posts: 12835 (07/01/2009 11:17 PM) |
Yea.
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P5 Teacher RN |
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Posts: 16129 (07/01/2009 11:30 PM) |
Yes, if I felt up to all that work.
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insomniachollie |
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Posts: 40393 (07/02/2009 7:47 AM) Best Fan Fic Writer '08 |
Depend on who was asking. If I'm that close to them I will swallow it and just be there to support her. If it's somebody who's only asking out of
courtesy I'll make my excuses.
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rory13 |
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Posts: 24458 (07/02/2009 7:50 AM) |
I have been a bridesmaid/MOH 4 times, and the only marriage that is still standing is my BFF. I'm like the bridesmaid kiss of death!
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SexifiedChasez |
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Posts: 14519 (07/02/2009 7:54 AM) |
I was in a wedding that I was friends with both the bride and the groom, so I was involved in all their shit, and I didn't think they were ready yet.
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NancyOttawa |
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Posts: 6382 (07/02/2009 7:56 AM) |
I said yes to my sister to be her MOH but I hated the guy she was marrying and so did my family but we loved her and didn't want to make her day sad
because of our feelings. She divorced him a few years later and is now married to a fantastic guy that we all adore.
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JohnMayerObsessionist |
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Posts: 5303 (07/02/2009 8:03 AM) |
Yes. Because you're not doing it for yourself, you're doing it for someone else. Your thoughts and opinions should have nothing to do with any of it.
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shortstuff79 |
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Posts: 414 (07/02/2009 8:07 AM) |
I guess it would depend on the situation. If they had a rocky relationship or I didn't personally like the guy, I would probably suck it up and do it.
However, if the guy was abusive or a drug addict, then no, I don't think I could .
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