a bunch of his college buddies to a strip club one night? Let's say he tells you ahead of time that he and his friends plan on going...so it's not like he's sneaking out or anything. Would you still be bothered just by the fact that he's going to a strip club?
Would it bother you if your boyfriend/husband went with
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Posts: 17945 (08/23/2009 6:43 PM) Most Mysterious '08 |
shoot no. i'm enraptured by the idea that my lover thinks of random 2-bit strippers while we f-ck!
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Posts: 733 (08/23/2009 6:43 PM) |
No, I don't care if my boyfriend goes to a strip club.
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Posts: 440 (08/23/2009 6:43 PM) |
Nope. It doesn't really mean anything.
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Posts: 57885 (08/23/2009 6:44 PM) |
No.
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Posts: 13671 (08/23/2009 6:44 PM) |
Nope. You think he's going to fuck a stripper?
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Posts: 16369 (08/23/2009 6:45 PM) Best Critic '05 |
I would be like 25% okay with it. As long as there wasn't too much touching!
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Posts: 15886 (08/23/2009 6:53 PM) |
Boyfriend and I have had this discussion. I tell him I don't care if he goes, but don't be doing anything you wouldn't want me to be doing with
another guy.
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Posts: 5786 (08/23/2009 6:56 PM) |
no.
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Posts: 13463 (08/23/2009 6:59 PM) |
No.
But I would make him shower after coming home from one. Some of those girls are nasty. |
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Posts: 16626 (08/23/2009 6:59 PM) |
I'll be the first and say, yes, it would bother me...a lot actually.
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Posts: 13509 (08/23/2009 7:00 PM) |
Yep.
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Posts: 5991 (08/23/2009 7:05 PM) |
No.
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Posts: 21937 (08/23/2009 7:06 PM) |
It wouldn't bother me. In fact, I wish they'd let me tag along & join in on the fun!
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Posts: 3063 (08/23/2009 7:10 PM) |
Those strippers do not want your men. I had a crazy ex roommate who went crazy during our first year in NYC and one of the things she did was worked as a
stripper. She would come home tired of being fake and nice trying to squeeze every penny out of men. After a while she said those guys became facless. It is
just a job they have to do and girls with spouses really shouldn't be worried.
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Posts: 16629 (08/23/2009 7:12 PM) |
Who says that's what some of us are worried about? There's more ways to have fun than to go see a woman shake her tits/ass in your face. It's just
disgusting to me.
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Posts: 14769 (08/23/2009 7:24 PM) |
I wouldn't be like, OMG YES GO THE STRIPCLUB YAY! But I'd get over it in a few minutes.
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Posts: 3685 (08/23/2009 7:49 PM) |
I don't care if my husband wanted to go out w/his friends. I trust him.
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Posts: 17948 (08/23/2009 8:01 PM) Most Mysterious '08 |
and unfortunately if he does set foot in a strip joint he knows to never-ever tell you.
i think open & honest communication is called for with this sort of thing. |
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Posts: 2332 (08/23/2009 8:02 PM) |
It doesn't bother me I trust him. Pick and choose your battles.
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Posts: 5642 (08/23/2009 8:05 PM) |
Honestly, I wouldn't be okay with it. I'd talk to my bf and wouldn't try to stop him from going or anything, but I also wouldn't lie to him
about how I felt. It's not that I don't trust him, but it would bother me a little that he would want to pay money to gawk at other women strutting
around naked on a stage.
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