HolyCannoli wrote:
LimitedRetroOG wrote:
HolyCannoli wrote:
Yes
I wasn't talking about you
Ever meet a guy...
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Posts: 4650 (08/31/2009 3:26 PM) Favorite Newcomer '09
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BobJaneMeTart |
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Posts: 53 (08/31/2009 3:26 PM) |
The other side of the planet. He's American and I'm Australian. But he is seriously contemplating giving up his whole life to move here! After a week!
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LimitedRetroOG |
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Posts: 4651 (08/31/2009 3:27 PM) Favorite Newcomer '09
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BobJaneMeTart wrote: Don't know what you're talking about... 
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yvettemarie21 |
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Posts: 23858 (08/31/2009 3:28 PM) |
Jump on a plane, get a hotel room, and go crazy. That's the only way you can really figure things out right? Good luck!!
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kaa2229 |
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Posts: 1399 (08/31/2009 3:30 PM) |
yvettemarie21 wrote: |
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talksalot83 |
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Posts: 89201 (08/31/2009 3:31 PM)
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Yeah, but he doesn't feel the same way as I do about our relationship.
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HolyCannoli |
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Posts: 5499 (08/31/2009 3:31 PM) |
I think it's a little out there to give up your whole life practically for someone you've known for a week. But if you guys have that connection and
believe it's right and can last, go for it. I don't think I could do that, though. Even if there's been more time to it. I don't think I could
handle doing it nor could I handle knowing he did it for me.
Maybe some visits first? |
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BobJaneMeTart |
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Posts: 54 (08/31/2009 4:07 PM) |
Yes, once.
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CrysLovesCouture |
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Posts: 4691 (08/31/2009 4:09 PM) |
A few years ago. I'm married, he's divorced.
And I don't even know why... he was overweight and not all that good looking, but we had a click. Needless to say, we don't talk anymore. |
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BobJaneMeTart |
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Posts: 55 (08/31/2009 4:10 PM) |
He does. I'm sure he's figured out that I'm 'well off' but it's not like I've told him just how rich I really am. Quite frankly,
the subject didn't come up at all until after he mentioned moving here. He thinks whatever is going on is just as insane as I do.
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BobJaneMeTart |
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Posts: 56 (08/31/2009 4:16 PM) |
Yes we met online, but in a forum for an event we were both attending that had absolutely NOTHING to do with dating or anything. It was industry stuff. So we
were always going to meet at the event. The talking started before he knew I was female, the chemistry started before we knew what each other looked like. We
were ummm... doing stuff... before we had any idea what the other looked like. He didn't ask for a picture because he honestly didn't want to know what
I looked like and neither did I. I was actually dreading meeting in case he was extremely unattractive in person.
Turns out he's extremely hot! And he thinks I'm extremely hot too. We're both insane and wondering what the hell we're doing. 
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Glory Glory Hallelujah |
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Posts: 26714 (08/31/2009 4:32 PM) JJBer of the Year '06
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OMG, these JJB encounters are the stuff movies are made of...and I'm loving it.
Wait on IVF! You're 35, you still have some time before going ahead with your original plan. See where this leads! |
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RayK3193 |
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Posts: 2421 (08/31/2009 4:35 PM) |
Seriously, you cannot pass up someone who makes you this excited and happy. Forget the distance. Forget how crazy it is. Keep up with it and see where it goes!
Find some time to spend with each other. Definitely don't let him just up and move there after a week. That's a little scary  But definitely spend
more time together and see what happens. You never know... you may have found THE ONE /cheesy
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BobJaneMeTart |
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Posts: 57 (08/31/2009 4:35 PM) |
Yes we have met in person. Once.
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BobJaneMeTart |
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Posts: 58 (08/31/2009 4:56 PM) |
No, that wasn't possible. Plus we were both reeling with the sheer energy between us. I was in shock.
This is not your typical... ooh he's hot, I wonder if he feels the same way... kind of chemistry. It's almost instinct? We both knew it was mutual without having to be told. It's definitely something that I didn't believe existed. I've had crushes, been in love, lusted after people, had mutual strong chemistry... but nothing like what I'm trying to describe. I can't find the words. I do feel like I'm in a damn movie Glo...LOL! |
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BobJaneMeTart |
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Posts: 59 (08/31/2009 5:09 PM) |
Yes he would be supporting himself. I'm sure he would be staying with me, but hes definitely not the type of guy who would be comfortable living off
someone else...
He told me on the third day that I had just complicated his life in a very serious way. He had plans, and apparently he's rethinking all of them because he met me. The weird thing is he's one of those guys who everyone looks up to, he's the leader, very charismatic, dominant male amongst the males type. Guys like him don't do this kind of stuff! Things (and women) would come easy to him. He doesn't need to make it this hard. How can I go from not wanting to be in any kind of relationship to being completely addicted to a man in a week? |
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Posts: 20691 (08/31/2009 5:19 PM) |
Yes and unfortunately it turns out that he's a gigantic loser and is currently in prison
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yvettemarie21 |
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Posts: 23859 (08/31/2009 9:05 PM) |
When you say its only been a week, is that since you started talking online or since you met in person?
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Oh reallly |
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Posts: 2503 (08/31/2009 9:21 PM) |
I'd take it really SLOW. I guess I am a little skeptical when it comes to men. It just seems like the Fairy Tales never end happy in REAL life.
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BobJaneMeTart |
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Posts: 60 (09/01/2009 3:31 AM) |
Yvettemarie, it's probably been about 2 weeks since we first said anything to each other, about 9 days since starting full conversation and 5 days since we
met in person.
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