I'd do it later on, wouldn't have a problem being 32 and dating a 29 year old, but I'd try not to be 26 dating a 21 year old.
How do you feel about dating younger guys?
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Posts: 19067 (09/08/2009 1:53 PM) |
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Alex the Goob |
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Posts: 52824 (09/08/2009 1:53 PM) |
I'm 24. I would never date anyone younger than 24.
 They're basically children.
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 HolyCannoli |
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Posts: 5797 (09/08/2009 1:56 PM) |
I'm dating the first younger guy than me ever. I'm 21 and he's 19. When I first met him the words "never" stayed in my head. It's not
so bad now.
Except for the first few months I ignored when people asked how old he was. Now I'm kind of over it. |
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msjellybean |
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Posts: 1227 (09/08/2009 1:57 PM) |
I'm all for it. I've always seemed to go for younger guys. My last two FWBs were 22 & 21 respectively. The guy I'm currently I'm
interested in just turned 20 about a month ago. I dunno, I can't really help who I'm attracted to. I guess it feels "right" for me to like
younger guys, because even though I'm 25 and already have a 4 year degree and stuff, I still live at home, (since I'm back in school) and just overall
feel very young still. This could all change though once I graduate in December.
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iamkristy |
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Posts: 6118 (09/08/2009 2:05 PM) |
I've never been attracted to younger men. However, I'm 30 and my boyfriend is 21. He's way more mature than guys his age. Age is just a number.
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lovleybones |
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Posts: 979 (09/08/2009 5:59 PM) |
just because someone is older than you doesn't make them more mature. i'm seeing a guy that is 26 and i'll be 30 next month. he's the most
mature guy i've ever hung out with - including my ex husband. i've never considered myself to be attracted to younger men - mainly because more often
than not they aren't at the same stage of life as i. i couldn't imagine dating a 19 yr old. i highly doubt they are at the same stage of life as a 30
yr old, ya know? anyhow i don't think 26 and 30 is THAT big of difference.
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erin2283 |
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Posts: 16291 (09/08/2009 6:03 PM) |
I wouldn't do it right now, but maybe in a few years. Eventually the age gap just doesn't make a difference.
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Jess116005 |
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Posts: 22757 (09/08/2009 6:07 PM) |
I could handle a year younger, no more than that.
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Da SupaStar BL |
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Posts: 724 (09/08/2009 6:11 PM) |
My ex was a year and half younger than me..and umm yeah that didnt work out so well
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JellyAly |
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Posts: 2079 (09/08/2009 6:14 PM) |
Not at this stage in life (I'm only 20), but maybe when I'm older.
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guesswhatelse |
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Posts: 27296 (09/08/2009 6:16 PM) |
Alex the Goob wrote:This is exactly how I feel.  I consider myself pretty
mature most of the time, and I have old-school ways. I feel like a pervert whenever I think some guy looks hot and he turns out to be younger than I am.
It's like "ugh, you're an infant. gtfo."
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Posts: 1674 (09/08/2009 6:22 PM) |
i would never say never. if i can't tell how young he is by having a conversation with him and based on where he is in life (not living at home), then i
think i'm okay with it.
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SamDeanLover88 |
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Posts: 464 (09/08/2009 6:25 PM) |
I personally dont like it, I'd rather the guy be older than me. Like my dad is 8 years older than my mom. Thats how I like it.
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AlfTheGreat |
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Posts: 31339 (09/08/2009 6:41 PM) |
Anything more than 2-3 years is pushing it. And if you're 40, dating a 30 year old...you're just being a whore.
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dana hoover |
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Posts: 744 (09/08/2009 6:47 PM) |
My fiance is 22 and I am 26. I love him with all my heart. To me age dosen't matter. Look at Demi Moore and Ashton K. he is way younger than her and they
are going strong. Whatever flotes your boat.
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Purplelilac82 |
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Posts: 17195 (09/08/2009 6:47 PM) |
I'm all for it. I plan to be a cougar when I get older
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rapturousvoice |
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Posts: 15 (09/08/2009 6:53 PM) |
My bf and I are four years apart also (he's younger) and I dont think its bad at all. Age is just a number as long as you get along I think.
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jus10luvr14 |
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Posts: 16075 (09/08/2009 6:55 PM) |
I've always been into younger guys. I'm a little more immature sometimes so I get along with some of them a little better. I've tried dating older,
but they're TOO mature for me.
Boyfriend is 22 and I am 24. We're a year and a half apart and it just works. A lot of people are very surprised when I say how young he is just by how old he does come off. It works. 
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dear lady |
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Posts: 40492 (09/08/2009 6:57 PM) |
I know some pretty hot (and seemingly sweet/good guys) but them being even a year or so younger than me totally turned me off. I'm not even sure about guys
my age because the majority of them are so immature so a guy younger than me? I'll pass.
I'm 22 btw so clearly I'm young so a guy younger than me is barely able to drink... I might think different when I turn 30 or something, but the age I tend to like is 25-27. I think they're perfect because a lot are still immature but at least they have the majority of their shit together, so they can be fun and have a stupid/good time but they're not SO immature that they're consumed by it... At least that's been my experience with men recently. |
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