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lacheysgurl	The real problem with women in relationships....	Lead	[-]
Posts: 9780 (10/19/2009 7:00 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	is that they are doing marital acts with their man and they are not married. Examples: Keys to the apartment Laying up under each other for hours Putting things in each others names (cars, cell phones) Sex without a condom You call him your hubby or wife, boo, my everything You are playing house( Cleaning his house) Moving in or shacking up (Don't assume just because you live together, he will one day marry you) When you do these types of marital acts, you are giving the other person the opportunity to use you up.They are getting the most of already so why would they marry you* Source: Http://www.necolebitchie.com From a relationship Blogger Life Skills Any thoughts?
doorear		#1	[-]
Posts: 11495 (10/19/2009 7:03 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts
FunSized		#2	[-]
Posts: 2756 (10/19/2009 7:05 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Most of those are utter crap. However, I do hate when people call their boyfriend "my hubby" or list their relationship status as "married" on Facebook when they're just dating.
lacheysgurl		#3	[-]
Posts: 9781 (10/19/2009 7:05 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I'm married already, but it seems like he has some valid points!
CrunkCrazy4NSync		#4	[-]
Posts: 166484 (10/19/2009 7:07 PM) Most Trustworthy '02 JJB Therapist '03 Most Likely to Reply '04 Justin Fanatic '06 Most Loyal *NSYNC Fan '07 Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Yikes.
westcoaster		#5	[-]
Posts: 3746 (10/19/2009 7:07 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I hate things like this, because it assumes all women are just dying to get married and that is their only goal.
maifanluva00		#6	[-]
Posts: 6113 (10/19/2009 7:09 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	westcoaster wrote: I hate things like this, because it assumes all women are just dying to get married and that is their only goal. word.
OhManImScrewed		#7	[-]
Posts: 18064 (10/19/2009 7:17 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I agree with some of those things. I also think more and more lately that moving in/having sex with someone before marriage will sometimes make it a lot easier for them to go without marriage. People just need to be smarter in relationships. Protect yourself to some degree.
IHeartDrDorian		#8	[-]
Posts: 11228 (10/19/2009 7:21 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	FunSized wrote: Most of those are utter crap. However, I do hate when people call their boyfriend "my hubby" or list their relationship status as "married" on Facebook when they're just dating. I hate that too
Mistress Darcy		#9	[-]
Posts: 11965 (10/19/2009 7:21 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I hate these because they make stupid observations. If having sex before marriage made men less likely to marry you no one would be getting married. And most people do get married in this lifetime. Why don't we take a look at why girls date the guys they date. Take a look around and see how many friends or people on JJB are dating complete losers because they want to "change" them or some shit. That interests me-not making dated assumptions that aren't even true.
Nsyncr0cker		#10	[-]
Posts: 3138 (10/19/2009 7:22 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I don't do any of that shit.
Muzak one		#11	[-]
Posts: 31514 (10/19/2009 7:40 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Goes back to the old saying "Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free?" I also don't understand why some women want to do all the wifely duties but do not want to get married. Why do it without the commitment and tax benefits?
pennylayne21		#12	[-]
Posts: 1490 (10/19/2009 7:47 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	FunSized wrote: Most of those are utter crap. However, I do hate when people call their boyfriend "my hubby" or list their relationship status as "married" on Facebook when they're just dating. It only bugs me if they have been dating for like 2 weeks. Here, if you live together for a year or more you are legally common-law spouses (all the same legal rights as married) and think if that's the case saying hubby is okay. Maybe I just prefer it to people who say "partner" because then I cannot tell if they are gay or not...it seems it used to be mainly used to describe same-sex partners and now more people in straight relationships use it - it confuses me!
KellySD		#13	[-]
Posts: 437 (10/19/2009 7:55 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I agree on some points. Which is why I would never live with a guy before marriage.
KimLikesBigOranges		#14	[-]
Posts: 838 (10/19/2009 9:02 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I don't know, you learn a LOT about a person by living with them that you otherwise don't know. I personally would prefer to live with a person before getting married to them. I don't really agree with quite a few things on that list, because it's not really so black and white when it comes to relationships. What works for one couple might not work for another.
maifanluva00		#15	[-]
Posts: 6135 (10/19/2009 9:06 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	^I'd want to live with someone before getting married too. One of my male friends said he was engaged and moved in with his fiancee. He says they started hating each other and that was the end of that.
jeepchic20		#16	[-]
Posts: 16318 (10/19/2009 9:07 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	You can do a lot of those things and still NOT be used. I don't agree with doing # 2, you need your own life and time away.

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