We all used to work together, and i heard tons of stories that he would hit on other girls while they were together. Also, he would always go out with the boys
and not answer his phone when she called, and he would get mad at her if she was hanging out with me, just going to a movie or something. He always accuses me
of taking her out to meet guys...when in reality, all we do is go out to dinner or the movies.
Tonight really proved it for me though. We were at PF Changs and she tried to call him. A girl answered and my friend was like, "Uh, can i speak to _____ (her bf)" and the girl on the line was like "yeaaaaaa" then hung up on her. My friend checked to make sure she dialed the right number and she did because she used speed dial. Then a minute later he called her back and convinced her that the phone wires must have crossed with someone elses and she was hearing someone elses conversation.
THEN, he kept being a jerk
because she was worried some other girl answered his phone, he made her feel bad for being upset.
Once they worked it out, she really believed that the wires crossed...she blamed it on the fact that he has a cricket wireless phone...and lines probably cross all the time.
Am i in the wrong for thinking he's cheating? I don't think i should say anything to her though...they've been together 4 years and its not really my place. What do you guys think?
Tonight really proved it for me though. We were at PF Changs and she tried to call him. A girl answered and my friend was like, "Uh, can i speak to _____ (her bf)" and the girl on the line was like "yeaaaaaa" then hung up on her. My friend checked to make sure she dialed the right number and she did because she used speed dial. Then a minute later he called her back and convinced her that the phone wires must have crossed with someone elses and she was hearing someone elses conversation.
THEN, he kept being a jerk
because she was worried some other girl answered his phone, he made her feel bad for being upset.
Once they worked it out, she really believed that the wires crossed...she blamed it on the fact that he has a cricket wireless phone...and lines probably cross all the time.
Am i in the wrong for thinking he's cheating? I don't think i should say anything to her though...they've been together 4 years and its not really my place. What do you guys think?
