So I went to dinner with him and my friend and her guy. He wasn't awful, but I wasn't feelin it, so I asked my friend to get me out of there, and he
totally knew I was ditching him. About 15 mins later he started sending me mean texts about how my friends and I were judgemental jerks, and he called my one
friend a 'sex whore'.
The whole experience would be laughable, except I'm nervous since he knows where I work and go to school, I hope he doesn't end up being a creep, and
stalking me. I'm really nervous about it. I deleted his number and everything, but I'm nervous.
Date with internet guy did NOT go well-update on pg2
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Posts: 5892 (10/27/2009 2:19 AM) |
Wait, was this a first date?
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Posts: 3750 (10/27/2009 2:22 AM) |
How did your friend get you out of there -- was it that obvious?
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Posts: 21823 (10/27/2009 2:28 AM) |
This whole thing is weird. Why would you bring people on your date?
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Posts: 21824 (10/27/2009 2:29 AM) |
And you "weren't feelin it" so you just up and left? That's so rude. Are you socially awkward?
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Posts: 15484 (10/27/2009 2:34 AM) Friendliest JJBer '09
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Yeah I would've just stuck it out and then politely let him know that I didn't want a second date.
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Posts: 4565 (10/27/2009 2:35 AM) |
you could have been more subtle in ditching him, could be that he is just hurt by that. anyone would be especially a guy from an internet date, probably had
high hopes. just dont insult him or some ish like that, he could be a real loony.
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Posts: 5893 (10/27/2009 2:37 AM) |
Yeah I've been on some bad dates, but I've never up and left in the middle of one. That's so rude. It would have only have been a couple more
hours, if that, and then like Orangepeel (
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declined a second date. Unless it's straight HORRIBLE and the person is a lunatic, then I don't see the need to ditch a date like that. You even said
yourself that it wasn't awful.
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Posts: 15485 (10/27/2009 2:38 AM) Friendliest JJBer '09
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DoesThatSparkle wrote:That's all I am to you now? 
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Posts: 21827 (10/27/2009 2:39 AM) |
orangepeel19 wrote: Me too. This girl is making it sound like she climbed out a bathroom window or something. Can you imagine being on a date with someone and they just fucking disappear?  And he actually texted her after, wtf...they both kinda sound
lame.
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Posts: 5894 (10/27/2009 2:41 AM) |
orangepeel19 wrote:lol I'm sorry! haha. That shows how late it is...I couldn't even be bothered to scroll up 2 inches to see who said it lol. I hope you can forgive me 
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Posts: 15486 (10/27/2009 2:42 AM) Friendliest JJBer '09
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Forgiven!
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Posts: 15488 (10/27/2009 2:44 AM) Friendliest JJBer '09
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muffinlover wrote:I just pictured myself hopstepping it out of there lmao, with a friend none the less 
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Posts: 2419 (10/27/2009 3:09 AM) |
why does he know where you work and go to school?
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Posts: 6662 (10/27/2009 3:13 AM) |
was he hot?
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Posts: 1127 (10/27/2009 3:18 AM) |
I don't know how you went about it, but it doesn't sound like you were thoughtful and subtle at all. Anybody would have felt hurt and insulted.
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Posts: 19907 (10/27/2009 3:18 AM) |
 He's not in the wrong here for sending you mean messages. You were a
bitch to just ditch him and not even say anything. Think about how you would have felt if someone did the same thing to you, and not only did it by himself,
but with a friend and his girlfriend tagging along to laugh about it. Yikes.
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Posts: 19909 (10/27/2009 3:26 AM) |
I didn't mean that to come off quite so sharply.
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Posts: 4625 (10/27/2009 3:34 AM)
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You deserved themessages that you got. What a douche move on your part.
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Posts: 18228 (10/27/2009 6:19 AM) Most Loyal *NSYNC Fan '08 |
I almost left someone when he got up to go to the bathroom because it was THAT bad, but then I realized that would be awful.
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I had a date where the guy stared at my boobs the whole time but luckily our meal came out quick so after I pulled the good 'ol I've got a long day at
work tomorrow so I should get home. The date lasted an hour..but I still waited AFTER the meal and even offered to pay for mine cause I knew I wasn't going
to call him again.
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