Do you think this is fair? (Regarding my ex-fiance)

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CarissaLuvsYa		#21	[-]
Posts: 18778 (10/28/2009 1:35 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	muffinlover wrote: CarissaLuvsYa wrote: muffinlover wrote: I would not ask him to pay for it. Just pay your dad back yourself. I don't have the money to pay my dad back. If they hadn't stolen the engagement ring from me I would have sold that and payed him back for it. Right now though he isn't even asking for the money, I just don't think it's fair for him to pay for a dress that won't be used. But when an engagement is not fulfilled by marriage, you are obligated to return the ring... Anyways, tell your dad that you will pay him as soon as you are able to, I'm sure he will understand. I know that! I would have given the ring back when he asked for it. It's just them stealing it from me put a really bitter taste in my mouth for these people.
muffinlover		#22	[-]
Posts: 21924 (10/28/2009 1:36 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Oh yeah...that's creepy and tacky.
lacheysgurl		#23	[-]
Posts: 10011 (10/28/2009 1:39 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	oh wow his mom is a tricky Biatch--did you cuss her out.....It would've been war at this time. I think don't contact him, just try to sell the dress on ebay or craigslist....
anniesahn		#24	[-]
Posts: 1681 (10/28/2009 1:40 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	if he was the type to pay for the dress, he would have offered when he broke up with you. and he wouldn't have conspired with his mom to trick you into giving up the ring. i'm sorry he's a douche
SharrywasBanned		#25	[-]
Posts: 1866 (10/28/2009 1:42 PM) JJB Devil '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts	The question isn't should he pay as much as it is, would he pay? Sounds to me he is a jerk and couldn't care less about owning anything, especially since he had his mother a part of the scheming.
Dee De		#26	[-]
Posts: 23190 (10/28/2009 1:44 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	No. Just sell it for what you can and chalk it up to experience.
muffinlover		#27	[-]
Posts: 21926 (10/28/2009 1:49 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I think they did you a favor. The guy sounds like a cowardly idiot and the mother seems like a shiesty, domineering bitch.
Olivia725		#28	[-]
Posts: 2358 (10/28/2009 1:49 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I doubt he would do anything. Sounds like a real ass. I would either keep it or sell it. Maybe call around to some consignment shops in the area.
pryncessnyla		#29	[-]
Posts: 5920 (10/28/2009 1:57 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Wow what an asshole. What was his reason for calling it off? What a heartless bastard. Breaks up with his fiance thru an email?! Glad you pulled through and glad it happened now and not after you got married. You must have been devastated, I am so sorry!
Queen Skeezah		#30	[-]
Posts: 2011 (10/28/2009 2:11 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Cari I'm so sorry. I've been hit and miss on the board and I had no idea that the engagement was off. had you already moved? Unfortunately I agree with the people that have said he probably won't give you a dime...if he wanted to he would have offered already.
CarissaLuvsYa		#31	[-]
Posts: 18779 (10/28/2009 2:11 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	pryncessnyla wrote: Wow what an asshole. What was his reason for calling it off? What a heartless bastard. Breaks up with his fiance thru an email?! Glad you pulled through and glad it happened now and not after you got married. You must have been devastated, I am so sorry! The reason was that I was "stressing him out" because the last time he called me I was crying about getting laid off from my job, it had happened less than an hour before he called me! But I'm glad he did it now rather than down the road, I learned a lot about myself in the process and realized I wasn't really cut out to be a military wife. I will have to see him in the future, probably around Christmas so that he can get all of his stuff back from me. But he gets back into the US in the next two weeks.
pryncessnyla		#32	[-]
Posts: 5925 (10/28/2009 2:15 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	CarissaLuvsYa wrote: pryncessnyla wrote: Wow what an asshole. What was his reason for calling it off? What a heartless bastard. Breaks up with his fiance thru an email?! Glad you pulled through and glad it happened now and not after you got married. You must have been devastated, I am so sorry! The reason was that I was "stressing him out" because the last time he called me I was crying about getting laid off from my job, it had happened less than an hour before he called me! But I'm glad he did it now rather than down the road, I learned a lot about myself in the process and realized I wasn't really cut out to be a military wife. I will have to see him in the future, probably around Christmas so that he can get all of his stuff back from me. But he gets back into the US in the next two weeks. Well that was a selfish reason. Your significant other is supposed to support you through times like that. I'd throw his stuff out on the lawn if that were me. Anyways in the long run he did you a favor, I am sure you will find yourself someone who makes you alot happier than he did.
AudaciousAudrey		#33	[-]
Posts: 32779 (10/28/2009 2:16 PM) Biggest Know It All '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I think she is already living with somebody
celebtrashwhore		#34	[-]
Posts: 7693 (10/28/2009 2:17 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	AudaciousAudrey wrote: I think she is already living with somebody Can you get that guy to help you pay your dad?
pryncessnyla		#35	[-]
Posts: 5927 (10/28/2009 2:18 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	AudaciousAudrey wrote: I think she is already living with somebody Oh! Well thats even better!
AudaciousAudrey		#36	[-]
Posts: 32780 (10/28/2009 2:19 PM) Biggest Know It All '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts	celebtrashwhore wrote: AudaciousAudrey wrote: I think she is already living with somebody Can you get that guy to help you pay your dad? lmao
nlove05		#37	[-]
Posts: 1391 (10/28/2009 2:19 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	OK so this was just a Dear Abby question, but she said that if a guy breaks off the engagement then the rings is the girls to keep. If she breaks it off the she needs to return the ring. I saw someone say the ring is his and that's not true if he broke off the engagement. I wouldn't give him back his stuff until he gave you the ring. Sell it, or throw it out.
CarissaLuvsYa		#38	[-]
Posts: 18781 (10/28/2009 2:21 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I moved out of my apartment and back in with my mom in anticipation for moving in with him when he got back. So I put all of my stuff in storage. We broke up, I still live with my mom but I did start dating a new guy and am staying with him the night's that I have to work. My work is 5 minutes from his place and an hour from my mom's. All of my stuff is still in storage so I don't have any of my stuff at anyone's house. Just clothes at my mom's and I pack work clothes to take to my BF's house.
JellyRoll2		#39	[-]
Posts: 17474 (10/28/2009 2:24 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	LisaChasez wrote: No. Just sell it for what you can and chalk it up to experience.
JellyRoll2		#40	[-]
Posts: 17475 (10/28/2009 2:25 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	CarissaLuvsYa wrote: pryncessnyla wrote: Wow what an asshole. What was his reason for calling it off? What a heartless bastard. Breaks up with his fiance thru an email?! Glad you pulled through and glad it happened now and not after you got married. You must have been devastated, I am so sorry! The reason was that I was "stressing him out" because the last time he called me I was crying about getting laid off from my job, it had happened less than an hour before he called me! But I'm glad he did it now rather than down the road, I learned a lot about myself in the process and realized I wasn't really cut out to be a military wife. I will have to see him in the future, probably around Christmas so that he can get all of his stuff back from me. But he gets back into the US in the next two weeks. Sell his shit. That will pay for the dress.

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