joey4pacey637 wrote:
My friends are allowed to have their SO spend the night. They're all 19-23 now, but they've been allowed for years.
I would never allow my 19-23 yr old to have sleep overs with there boy/girlfriend at my house.
Would you let your son or daughter
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Posts: 1602 (10/30/2009 11:02 PM) |
I would never allow my 19-23 yr old to have sleep overs with there boy/girlfriend at my house. |
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 jus10luvr14 |
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Posts: 16618 (10/30/2009 11:05 PM) |
StrawberryCoke wrote: I was allowed to when I was 19-20 but we couldn't sleep in my room, we slept in the basement where it was out in the open. We also didn't have sex in the house then. This boyfriend now though I've been allowed to have sleep in my room/bed, but I'm also 24 and we've been dating for over a year. And when we were at school we were living together, so I think that's why our parents allow it. I do agree with a lot of you though. In my own house, with own children, I wouldn't allow the bf/gf to stay over unless they were in their 20s and it was a steady relationship. |
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StrawberryCoke |
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Posts: 1603 (10/30/2009 11:09 PM) |
jus10luvr14 wrote: See I wouldn't even like it if they were in there 20s lol, I just think that's something you do when you live on your own and not when you still live with your parents. |
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SurvivorQT4EVER |
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Posts: 2471 (10/30/2009 11:36 PM) |
my aunt let my 14yo cousin + boyfriend sleep in the same bed, in her house
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jus10luvr14 |
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Posts: 16621 (10/30/2009 11:38 PM) |
StrawberryCoke wrote: We were both living on our own and had to go back and live with our parents temporarily for 8 months. |
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lilSS |
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Posts: 12530 (10/30/2009 11:41 PM) |
Hell no! Aint no one having sex in my house that aint grown and married or paying the mortgage. Parents that allow their children to have sex in their homes
are kind of trashy to me but that is just me.
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milf15 |
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Posts: 845 (10/30/2009 11:53 PM) |
I never could do it in my parents house.. I always felt like I was disrespecting them in some way. I'm 24 and I still don't, if I'm there to visit,
my bf can wait a few days.
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Samantha James |
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Posts: 17828 (10/30/2009 11:59 PM) |
Hell no.
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ILUVBubbleGUM |
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Posts: 1179 (10/31/2009 12:34 AM) |
sex i sjust plain not that big of a deal to me. i dont think i would want high schoolers sleeping in the same room like that, but i think once u graduate high
school (18+ years old), u should be treated like an adult.
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blairboy |
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Posts: 35961 (10/31/2009 12:37 AM)
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I'd rather have them do it at my house than in a back alley or something. With that said, I wouldn't allow my teen son/daughters s/o to sleep over
until they got 17/18.
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Ho |
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Posts: 1719 (10/31/2009 12:43 AM) |
Teens, no. Twenty something, sure, as long as they weren't whoring it up and I couldn't hear them.
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SShanique |
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Posts: 5358 (10/31/2009 12:44 AM) |
Heck no!
I knew a girl in the 7th grade whose mom let her boyfriend spend the night with her. Guess what happened at the end of 7th grade. She got pregnant! |
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Molieshka |
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Posts: 1808 (10/31/2009 12:47 AM) |
a few people mentioned living at home for economical reasons- you are making a choice by having sex and that could really easily result in a baby- chances are
that will be quite the economic hardship as well.... If you cant afford your own place you shouldn't be having so much sex that you cant resist while you
are in your parents home.
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KellySD |
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Posts: 750 (10/31/2009 12:53 AM) |
No fucking way. My parents don't approve of me having sex at anytime. Much less at their house.
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xxGirlxxFixerxx |
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Posts: 2903 (10/31/2009 12:56 AM) |
Molieshka wrote: OMG stfu that is the most fucked up/annoying/immature/illogical reasoning ever. You do realize people have sex for pleasure and not just to procreate. Obviously accidents happen but the odds are WITH you if you're using contraception. It's not like anyone here said "well yeah we're broke, in school, and living at home because we're broke, but we're doing it like 2 little rabbit's, hoping for a Jon and Kate brood of our own very soon!" |
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muffinlover |
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Posts: 22027 (10/31/2009 1:00 AM) |
I wouldn't want them to but I'm not going to sit around and babysit a 20 y/o who's living in my house. As long as I can't hear or see it and my
kid isn't an irresponsible stupid idiot, then I probably wouldn't care.
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XxBlondeshavemorefunxX |
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Posts: 11829 (10/31/2009 1:00 AM) |
seaner23 wrote: This. |
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ScarletOWhora85 |
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Posts: 17044 (10/31/2009 1:01 AM) |
seaner23 wrote:Yeah, I agree. I wouldn't approve of high school kids doing it in my house, but college-aged would be more acceptable. And I totally agree with the second part. |
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Molieshka |
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Posts: 1809 (10/31/2009 1:11 AM) |
xxGirlxxFixerxx wrote: girlfixer- thanks for that intellectual argument. You're right, I am indeed the immature one here. Grow up. |
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muffinlover |
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Posts: 22031 (10/31/2009 1:14 AM) |
^have you ever heard of a thing called birth control? contraceptives? prophylactics?
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