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Posts: 2042 (10/31/2009 12:49 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	things went really well. We both graduated two years ago and both happened to be in town for our colleges Homecoming weekend. We sort of dated (not officially but we were "whatever you want to lablel it" for about 6 months in college). I haven't talked to him since we graduated and things kind of ended between us without any closure. Anywho, we ended up at the same bar last night and he must've seen me since he came up to my group of friends and we talked for a good half hour or so. Surprisingly, it wasn't awkward between us and he was friendly Anywho, he asked if I still had the same phone number and I said no (I switched numbers a year or so out of college) so he got my new #. I know we probably won't see each other today since he's leaving tomorrow but it was really nice catching up with him last night. Would it be dumb of me to text him today and say something like "Hey great seeing you this weekend!", or should I wait and do that sometime early next week once we're both back home? Edited By: Lyric762 10/31/2009 12:55 PM. Edited 2 times.
curiousgeoff		#1	[-]
Posts: 4378 (10/31/2009 12:57 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	oh no... put his number away.. and forget it happened.. he will call you if hes interested.. PLEASE DONT GO DOWN THAT ROUTE.
HumpThatStage		#2	[-]
Posts: 16514 (10/31/2009 12:58 PM) Best Critic '05 Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Let him call you! If he really wants to talk to you, he will call you or text you.
AudaciousAudrey		#3	[-]
Posts: 32891 (10/31/2009 12:58 PM) Biggest Know It All '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts	You sound really eager to talk to this person. I wouldn't text him at all. What's the point? He'll text you when he's coming back into town and ready to hook up.
IHeartDrDorian		#4	[-]
Posts: 11303 (10/31/2009 12:59 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Wait to see if he will say something to you
Lyric762		#5	[-]
Posts: 2043 (10/31/2009 12:59 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	curiousgeoff wrote: oh no... put his number away.. and forget it happened.. he will call you if hes interested.. PLEASE DONT GO DOWN THAT ROUTE. I'm not interested. We're both in relationships now and he lives over 2,000 miles away from me. It was just nice to see him and catch up and just wanted to make it a point to let him know that.
jus10luvr14		#6	[-]
Posts: 16625 (10/31/2009 1:00 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I would just wait. This sounds like a similar thing that happened to me and yeah.
Lyric762		#7	[-]
Posts: 2044 (10/31/2009 1:00 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	AudaciousAudrey wrote: You sound really eager to talk to this person. I wouldn't text him at all. What's the point? He'll text you when he's coming back into town and ready to hook up. Our relationship is purely platonic now, it's been two years since we've seen each other and both have moved on. We just had a good time talking last night and I just wanted to wish him well.
curiousgeoff		#8	[-]
Posts: 4379 (10/31/2009 1:01 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	why? you already talked to him for 30 mins + ... didnt you already say something along the lines of "oh its nice to see you!" whatfuck reason do u possibly have to further that with a text, of all things?
Lyric762		#9	[-]
Posts: 2045 (10/31/2009 1:02 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	curiousgeoff wrote: why? you already talked to him for 30 mins + ... didnt you already say something along the lines of "oh its nice to see you!" whatfuck reason do u possibly have to further that with a text, of all things? Wow you sound angry. Chill.... I was just going to say something to that effect or around the lines of hope you had fun this weekend at homecoming just to be polite.
merchasa		#10	[-]
Posts: 2479 (10/31/2009 1:02 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Lyric762 wrote: curiousgeoff wrote: oh no... put his number away.. and forget it happened.. he will call you if hes interested.. PLEASE DONT GO DOWN THAT ROUTE. I'm not interested. We're both in relationships now and he lives over 2,000 miles away from me. It was just nice to see him and catch up and just wanted to make it a point to let him know that. Even if it is innocent, making a point about how nice it was to see him and catch up is overkill.
AudaciousAudrey		#11	[-]
Posts: 32894 (10/31/2009 1:04 PM) Biggest Know It All '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Yea I feel like it is a bad idea.
Jenna1983		#12	[-]
Posts: 21128 (10/31/2009 1:05 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Let it go as it is...
curiousgeoff		#13	[-]
Posts: 4380 (10/31/2009 1:07 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	B A D I D E A
EJFiederer		#14	[-]
Posts: 14002 (10/31/2009 1:07 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Lyric762 wrote: AudaciousAudrey wrote: You sound really eager to talk to this person. I wouldn't text him at all. What's the point? He'll text you when he's coming back into town and ready to hook up. Our relationship is purely platonic now, it's been two years since we've seen each other and both have moved on. We just had a good time talking last night and I just wanted to wish him well. You don't have a relationship now...and you barely had one before. Let it go.
JulieAnne20		#15	[-]
Posts: 37645 (10/31/2009 1:09 PM) Best Debater '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts	curiousgeoff wrote: B A D I D E A
Lyric762		#16	[-]
Posts: 2046 (10/31/2009 1:18 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	EJFiederer wrote: Lyric762 wrote: AudaciousAudrey wrote: You sound really eager to talk to this person. I wouldn't text him at all. What's the point? He'll text you when he's coming back into town and ready to hook up. Our relationship is purely platonic now, it's been two years since we've seen each other and both have moved on. We just had a good time talking last night and I just wanted to wish him well. You don't have a relationship now...and you barely had one before. Let it go. I said we BOTH are in relationships now earlier
saturn02		#17	[-]
Posts: 1111 (10/31/2009 1:21 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Even though you claim it's platonic, the fact that you posted on a board to ask advice about a next step would suggest otherwise. Are you sure you have no feelings for him? If you don't then I agree with everyone else and just leave it. You guys already exchanged pleasantries and if you contact him now/first then I guarantee he'll think it means you like him again.
EJFiederer		#18	[-]
Posts: 14005 (10/31/2009 1:22 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Lyric762 wrote: EJFiederer wrote: Lyric762 wrote: AudaciousAudrey wrote: You sound really eager to talk to this person. I wouldn't text him at all. What's the point? He'll text you when he's coming back into town and ready to hook up. Our relationship is purely platonic now, it's been two years since we've seen each other and both have moved on. We just had a good time talking last night and I just wanted to wish him well. You don't have a relationship now...and you barely had one before. Let it go. I said we BOTH are in relationships now earlier You said that your relationship between you and this guy is platonic. I said that you and this guy don't have a relationship...platonic or otherwise. A half hour conversation after not a peep for 2 years doesn't even warrant the word "relationship".
jus10luvr14		#19	[-]
Posts: 16629 (10/31/2009 1:22 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Yeah, I think by sending him the text message you'll give him the wrong idea. Just take that talking with him last night was a sign to him that you enjoyed seeing him again and leave it at that.
JulieAnne20		#20	[-]
Posts: 37652 (10/31/2009 1:28 PM) Best Debater '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts	saturn02 wrote: Even though you claim it's platonic, the fact that you posted on a board to ask advice about a next step would suggest otherwise. Seriously, why would you even make a post to ask advice if you didn't somehow care?

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