This bitch from high school sent me a friend request on FB.

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SFNYYFan		#101	[-]
Posts: 23699 (11/01/2009 7:45 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	This makes me think of the time a poster posted pictures of herself in an outfit and got pissed and said she didn't ask for anyone's opinions of her in her outfit.
bebegrl		#102	[-]
Posts: 2381 (11/01/2009 7:47 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	cherry121 wrote: ...... You can't treat people like shit and expect them to be happy to see you again.
madisonry		#103	[-]
Posts: 4413 (11/01/2009 9:08 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	SFNYYFan wrote: This makes me think of the time a poster posted pictures of herself in an outfit and got pissed and said she didn't ask for anyone's opinions of her in her outfit. Except I'm not in the slightest bit pissed.
SFNYYFan		#104	[-]
Posts: 23710 (11/01/2009 9:13 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I wasn't trying to say you were. The tie-in was more for the people that are saying people are trying to tell you how to feel and you didn't ask for it.
Pliant Pineapple		#105	[-]
Posts: 47488 (11/01/2009 9:13 PM) Funniest JJBer '06 JJBer of the Year '07 Funniest JJBer '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Meli wrote: And I wanna add : The people who tell her to get over it, are probably the people who were real bitches in High School, and who now don't feel good about it, and are doing the same thing on Facebook. lol lol lol no. I was an overachieving band nerd who was apparently bullied enough by a couple of people that I completely blocked it from memory (others tell me it happened). And those bullies are on my FB friends list because we're all grown up now and behave better.
FunSized		#106	[-]
Posts: 2825 (11/01/2009 9:21 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Pliant Pineapple wrote: Meli wrote: And I wanna add : The people who tell her to get over it, are probably the people who were real bitches in High School, and who now don't feel good about it, and are doing the same thing on Facebook. lol lol lol no. I was an overachieving band nerd who was apparently bullied enough by a couple of people that I completely blocked it from memory (others tell me it happened). And those bullies are on my FB friends list because we're all grown up now and behave better. People deal with things in different ways. I was tortured in high school by a group of people, all of whom have tried to add me on Facebook. I highly doubt it's because they were filled with remorse and sincerely wanted to see how I was doing. It was a very emotionally traumatizing time for me... Do I think about it all the time? No. Did it shape who I am today? Absolutely. I would be cordial to these people in person, but I would never consider them my friends, either on Facebook or off. It doesn't make me (or the OP) a bad person.
SuperheroPip18		#107	[-]
Posts: 24110 (11/01/2009 9:21 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I didn't bully people enough in high school. Facebook gives me a second chance to do some more mental (and sometimes physical) damage. Just add her.
SFNYYFan		#108	[-]
Posts: 23711 (11/01/2009 9:24 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	When did people who are still sore about high school bullies graduate?
Pliant Pineapple		#109	[-]
Posts: 47489 (11/01/2009 9:28 PM) Funniest JJBer '06 JJBer of the Year '07 Funniest JJBer '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts	FunSized wrote: Pliant Pineapple wrote: Meli wrote: And I wanna add : The people who tell her to get over it, are probably the people who were real bitches in High School, and who now don't feel good about it, and are doing the same thing on Facebook. lol lol lol no. I was an overachieving band nerd who was apparently bullied enough by a couple of people that I completely blocked it from memory (others tell me it happened). And those bullies are on my FB friends list because we're all grown up now and behave better. People deal with things in different ways. I was tortured in high school by a group of people, all of whom have tried to add me on Facebook. I highly doubt it's because they were filled with remorse and sincerely wanted to see how I was doing. It was a very emotionally traumatizing time for me... Do I think about it all the time? No. Did it shape who I am today? Absolutely. I would be cordial to these people in person, but I would never consider them my friends, either on Facebook or off. It doesn't make me (or the OP) a bad person. I never said it made anyone a bad person to not friend someone they dislike. It just speaks poorly of them when they respond all "hell no bitch!"
Lets Hug It Out		#110	[-]
Posts: 38117 (11/01/2009 9:29 PM) JJB Devil '07 JJB Angel '08 JJB Therapist '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I don't see why this is such a huge deal. I really don't. I get that you feel "damaged" in some way by this, but before even saying anything or learning about her motivation to add you, you went off the deep end. How do you know he wasn't trying to make amends and let bygones be bygones? Like PP said, there are a lot of people from both of my HS on my facebook page and I've had no issues, even with people I remembered having issues with. A lot of time things are remembered by people and forgotten by others. Similar to what McKenna was saying. I just think this thing is bothering you way more than it even should have. At the end of the day, FB is a nice place to keep in touch with people and to know that people you grew up with are doing well, etc.
FunSized		#111	[-]
Posts: 2826 (11/01/2009 9:31 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	SFNYYFan wrote: When did people who are still sore about high school bullies graduate? It's not even about age. I decided to become a teacher in part for this reason. People take the bullying issue WAY too lightly. For some people, it's impossible to completely forget the mental (and sometimes physical) abuse that took place throughout all twelve years of schooling. It's so easy to say, "It happened a long time ago. Get over it." I wish it was that easy. I was lucky...I graduated and put my experience to good use, and ended up doing a total 360 turnaround. I've become such a confident, happy person. But a lot of people face the repurcussions of bullying for years and years.
Baby		#112	[-]
Posts: 32509 (11/01/2009 9:31 PM) Most Used Emoticons Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I can't believe a four word response on FB from the OP spawned all this. She realizes that it was childish, what more is there to say?
I am a turkey Kill me		#113	[-]
Posts: 5237 (11/01/2009 9:33 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I don't think she made a big deal about it. Its not like she wrote a three paragraph response explaining why.
SFNYYFan		#114	[-]
Posts: 23713 (11/01/2009 9:35 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	It'd be easier to understand someone being sore about something that happened more recently which was my point. Everyone reacts differently and adjusts differently but I'd imagine you'd be a little more upset about someone calling you fat if it happened last year rather than 10 years ago. It's not that I'm taking the bullying issue lightly, but I'd tend to write off A LOT of what has happened in school to immaturity so I can't really relate someone who hangs on to that for so long.
maia525		#115	[-]
Posts: 1536 (11/01/2009 9:38 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Lets Hug It Out wrote: I don't see why this is such a huge deal. I really don't. I get that you feel "damaged" in some way by this, but before even saying anything or learning about her motivation to add you, you went off the deep end. How do you know he wasn't trying to make amends and let bygones be bygones? Like PP said, there are a lot of people from both of my HS on my facebook page and I've had no issues, even with people I remembered having issues with. A lot of time things are remembered by people and forgotten by others. Similar to what McKenna was saying. I just think this thing is bothering you way more than it even should have. At the end of the day, FB is a nice place to keep in touch with people and to know that people you grew up with are doing well, etc. How in the world did she "go off the deep end"? I think this thing is bothering a lot of you more than it's bothered the OP.
madisonry		#116	[-]
Posts: 4416 (11/01/2009 9:45 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I don't take personal issues here and I'm not going to just so people can understand, but I didn't and still don't take anyone calling me fat lightly. Regardless of her supposed intentions that a lot of people are giving her the credit of having, I have no plans to let bygones be bygones. She does not need to be in my life in any way, shape or form and that includes Facebook and I have no issues letting her know she must be joking if she thinks anything she's done it okay. I'm a little confused why I would owe her the courtesy of asking her intentions, to be honest. And I didn't call anyone a bitch except for in the title of this post. Lets not try to blow things out of proportion.
SaveCleo		#117	[-]
Posts: 14176 (11/01/2009 9:46 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	FallenAngelFound wrote: Maybe she grew up since high school and is wondering how you're doing? Judging by your response, you're clearly still in the high school mentality.
McKennaWasBanned		#118	[-]
Posts: 18166 (11/01/2009 11:06 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	cherry121 wrote: x Mea Culpa x wrote: Mistress Darcy wrote: McKennaWasBanned wrote: I was a real bitch to a girl I went to middle/high school with and didn't remember being a bitch. I asked her to be my friend right when I joined facebook and forgot I asked. She didn't accept but I didn't notice because I forgot I friended her. A few months later, I saw her on my friend's wall and friended her again (having forgot I had already done that). She sent me a message back and was like "I guess you didn't get the hint so let me spell it out for you: I do not want to be your friend" and talked about how I was such a bitch blahblahblah. It was crazy long. I didn't know how to respond so I just never did. It made her look crazy but if that's what she needed to say to get closure on the situation then so be it. No harm done. Except I told everyone about it so everyone probably thinks she's a nut. I am imagining this is exactly what the girl thought/did. I dont really know how this makes her the nut. I mean, you probably made her life miserable in school, and you dont even remember it... she doesnt have to 'play nice' with you now, and obviously she doesnt Exactly. If I was the friend you were telling the story to, I'd re-think my opinion of you for making someone else's life miserable enough that they would say that to you and you not even remembering what you did. I told them all the story to see if they remembered me being a bitch to this girl. Nobody remembered anything. I think in a lot of cases, people who hold grudges like this are overly sensitive and dramatic. Plenty of people have been mean to me in my life, especially in middle school because I was the new kid and I had a funny accent, and I was tall and gangly. I didn't let it affect me then and it certainly doesn't affect me now. One of the girls who was rude to me in middle school ended up being my best friend.
kimjoy85		#119	[-]
Posts: 6964 (11/01/2009 11:32 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Lol, it's normal for things that happened in someones adolesence to stay with them as they grow older. And I bet most of the people saying "move on" are just saving face.
babylulu		#120	[-]
Posts: 27521 (11/01/2009 11:34 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts	This girl who bullied me in elementary school friended me a while ago...i didn't friend her back. She made my life a living hell.

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