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Posts: 8564 (11/02/2009 6:55 AM) |
Ok, like most people said, you overreacted a tad, but I certainly see your points and why you weren't happy with what he said, but now all you need to do
is tell that to him and apologize for you reaction. I did get a bit of a laugh though as this is a perfect example how men sometimes just don't get it and
how they complain that women expect men to read their minds!
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11/02/2009 10:36 AM.
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VelvetRope11 |
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Posts: 32472 (11/02/2009 7:38 AM) |
I'd say it's a case of over reacting to stupid shit guys say.
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JulieAnne20 |
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Posts: 37781 (11/02/2009 7:51 AM) Best Debater '09
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Posts: 10883 (11/02/2009 8:09 AM) |
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Posts: 15621 (11/02/2009 10:16 AM) Friendliest JJBer '09
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 This is actually totally hilarious.
His comment, your reaction, all of it. |
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Posts: 5111 (11/02/2009 10:34 AM) |
I think you handled it pretty badly, you've been together 7 years by now. Seems like he said it without even thinking about it and you overreated like a 15
year old by making a tantrum. You're both adults, talk it over and fix it because it's stupid to be mad over something like that.
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TYCP Sha |
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Posts: 99653 (11/02/2009 10:34 AM) |
DoesThatSparkle wrote: muffinlover wrote: |
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Posts: 3347 (11/02/2009 11:17 AM) |
I'm just shocked that after 7 years together, you'd freak out over something so pointless. He must be a saint or really ugly.
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Posts: 2122 (11/02/2009 11:23 AM) |
I think you're overreacting. Though, in your position, I might be a tad ticked off that my boyfriend implied that he'd be luckier if he'd
'scored' an Asian girl vs. the Hispanic girl he has! But, it just sounds like one of those stupid things guys say without realizing how annoying it is.
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Dee De |
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Posts: 23221 (11/02/2009 11:25 AM) |
Pick your battles. This is definitely not one of them.
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NotLiza |
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Posts: 1147 (11/02/2009 11:26 AM) |
You definitely overreacted
wtf
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Nneecolee |
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Posts: 10450 (11/02/2009 11:38 AM) |
This is hilarious. Yes you are overreacting. There might be some insecurity. There's a lot of white guys infatuated with asian girls and vice versa.
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Posts: 15576 (11/02/2009 11:41 AM) |
Marydoll512 wrote:I completely understand, and didn't even need to read the above reasoning to get it. I'm also not surprised that many people here are completely stumped as to why you got upset.
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JC wears Manties |
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Posts: 39149 (11/02/2009 11:43 AM) Best Screenname '03 |
I love that the ads in this post are for asian dating sites. Hope your boyfriend doesn't find this post.
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Pliant Pineapple |
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Posts: 47496 (11/02/2009 1:52 PM) Funniest JJBer '06
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celebtrashwhore |
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Posts: 7706 (11/02/2009 2:14 PM) |
cinnabon83 wrote: Seriously. Why are you asking JJB? They dont even get why you were offended-- ofcourse theyre going to think you are overreacting. Id be irritated and disgusted if my BF said that. |
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Posts: 27292 (11/02/2009 2:18 PM) |
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nsync chica85 |
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Posts: 9577 (11/02/2009 2:21 PM) |
I might be offended over that if I was 15.
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Marydoll512 |
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Posts: 4450 (11/02/2009 3:06 PM) |
celebtrashwhore wrote: Yeah I know..I just came in here to see what other's thought... I have seen numerous posts of other JJBrs asking/talking about even more rediculous things. It's cool I'm really not taking any offense to what they are saying becasue they don't KNOW me and my thought process. So it's cool. I just wanted an outsiders point of view on this. I ended up apologizing and explaining to him why I found his comment to be offensive to ME. He understood and all is well and back to living life we go  . I know people find it hard to
believe that there are PEOPLE out there who can't accept being wrong once in a while! EH, Guess I'm the exception to that rule. If I ask for advice,
I LISTEN to the critisism that comes with it. I take it and welcome it. I don't fight it, I don't argue (hence why im reaching out for advice in the
1st place)
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Posts: 2297 (11/02/2009 3:18 PM) |
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