well, as you guys know, i've been complaining about my loser boyfriend for a while now........well we finally broke up and it's bitter sweet.
it's only been three weeks and he's in love with another girl spending the night at her house everynight. i mean, it's not like i want him back,
but i don't understand how he could have moved on so fast after 7 years. oh BTW, we're still living together! we're not financially stable enough
to move out till Jan. ugh, i know i shouldn't but i keep looking at our online bank statement and i'm seeing everywhere he's taking this girl! some
evil part of me wants to set all his sh*t on fire....am i a horrible person?
i feel blue. 
finally broke up
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Posts: 9396 (11/03/2009 11:08 AM) |
That right there says something was going on with this girl LONG before you broke up.
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Posts: 490 (11/03/2009 11:10 AM) |
yeah they met 4 months ago
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Posts: 7524 (11/03/2009 11:12 AM) |
Oh man. There is NOTHING good about any of that.
 I'm sorry you have to still live with him. Its stuff like this that gives me no hope for a lot of
guys (I know NOT ALL OF THEM ARE LIKE THAT)out there. 
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la bella vista |
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Posts: 6504 (11/03/2009 11:12 AM) |
he can't be alone.
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Posts: 5595 (11/03/2009 11:12 AM) |
my ex did the same, moved on to a new girl a month after our 5yr relationship ended his explination was "I just can't be alone" losers.
Look at it this way; you're better off with out him and you're not the one that should feel shitty, you should be feeling sorry for her. You got rid of that dead baggage and she's just picking it up. |
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Posts: 8603 (11/03/2009 11:14 AM) |
What a horrible situation that you have to live with him until the end of the year!! UGH! Well at least he'll probably spend more time at her place if you
are lucky. But what is alarming he is you talking about "your online bank statement"!! Am I reading that wrong or do you share a bank account! Please
tell me you will be ending that NOW!
As far as wanting to set all his shit on fire!  It's ok and normal to think about it, just don't act on it!
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Posts: 2284 (11/03/2009 11:21 AM) |
Seriously, if you guys share a bank account cut that out. You really have no right to want to set his stuff on fire, you guys broke up, it means it is DONE,
you can see others so can he. Sorry to be harsh but it is reality. You complained about him so much now he's free and he's with someone else. Time for
you to move on as well and find a better guy.
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Posts: 491 (11/03/2009 11:22 AM) |
yeah we have a joint checking account that pays bills and HIS paycheck gets deposited into that account. i don't want to take my name off it because i need
to have access to HIS money until we officially move out. i'll be damned if he's gonna up and leave me with all these bills!!!
as soon as i found out he was cheating i went straight to the bank and opened up my own checking account. my paychecks get deposited there now. |
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Posts: 8605 (11/03/2009 11:24 AM) |
smart girl!! Despite a broken heart, seems you got your head on straight. Now to just get through the next 2 months because until then, you aren't going to
be able to really move on.
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Posts: 492 (11/03/2009 11:26 AM) |
GCisPC wrote:yeah, you're right. i don't want to go down to his level. i'm trying to be as civil as i can about it but i can't help but feel spiteful yenno? I'm trying though. okay, the crazy in me is gone....FOR NOW....LOL |
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Posts: 8607 (11/03/2009 11:35 AM) |
Hey you are entitled to your crazy moments as far as I'm concerned, and as long as you don't act on them of course!
It's a tough situation
when you are broken up, still living together, and he's supposedly in love with someone else and having a relationship already. I think a lot of girls
would be a little wacky right now in the same situation.
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NsYnC FaN 364 |
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Posts: 8513 (11/03/2009 11:37 AM) |
oh wow. that is a horrible situation. I hope you are able to get back on your feet soon and save up enough money to move out. I don't know how I would be
able to cope in this situation. Stay strong!
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