I don't even want her and her daughter going on the trip, I've been on a vacation with someone who made me absolutely miserable and I now refer to that vacation as the worst week of my life. No matter how hard you try, having someone who hurts you and disrespects you that much so involved in your vacation, it's going to not be a fun time. : (
I AM SO F'ING ANNOYED*Ur Never gonna believe..
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Posts: 32532 (11/06/2009 8:31 AM) |
This mother in law is insane, I'm pissed off for the OP.
I don't even want her and her daughter going on the trip, I've been on a vacation with someone who made me absolutely miserable and I now refer to that vacation as the worst week of my life. No matter how hard you try, having someone who hurts you and disrespects you that much so involved in your vacation, it's going to not be a fun time. : ( |
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Posts: 12505 (11/06/2009 9:42 AM) |
If she ends up coming, just sneak out of your room and go to the parks without her.
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Posts: 8702 (11/06/2009 9:45 AM) |
jcsgrrl21 wrote: Um... yes a few of us noticed and I even commented on it a few times and how it's difficult to say no other family because of this. Just wanted to point that out back to you
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Posts: 11092 (11/06/2009 9:49 AM) |
AloofIsOnFire wrote:that's too passive aggressive. i'd just tell her how you feel and since she doesn't know what date to plan for, she won't be able to plan. SHE MUST BE STOPPED!! |
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Posts: 6041 (11/06/2009 1:27 PM) |
Aunt Jen just text me:
"Hi honey, me and deb decided not to go to Fl. You kids have fun. Love ya" |
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Posts: 53806 (11/06/2009 1:27 PM) |
PRAISE JESUS!!!!
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Posts: 33389 (11/06/2009 1:28 PM) Biggest Know It All '09
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Oh shit.
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amyfo |
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Posts: 19384 (11/06/2009 1:28 PM) Joey Fanatic '08 |
That is great news! I wonder what made her change her mind.
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MandsLB8 |
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Posts: 6042 (11/06/2009 1:35 PM) |
Well, I text Aunt Jen back and she hasn't responded.. and then I text Mrs. and said "I don't understand why you're not going now.. I thought
everyone was 'ecstatic' yesterday.. what changed??" and she said "my sister made the decision. she doesn't want to go anymore".
I bet you any money aunt jen is just saying she doesn't want to go bc she knows that I want it to be just us.. It kinda feels bad getting your way... but great at the same time! |
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Posts: 4040 (11/06/2009 1:37 PM) |
WOW!! How does Mr. Mands feel about this?
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ALR83 |
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Posts: 53807 (11/06/2009 1:39 PM) |
I'm so relieved for you.
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MandsLB8 |
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Posts: 6043 (11/06/2009 1:41 PM) |
Darling Nikki33 wrote: He said he's happy that everything is working out.. but don't get hopes up because it's still 2 months away and Mrs. will talk Aunt Jen into anything and that he doesn't put it past his mom to cry to her. I see this happening for sure.
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Posts: 2548 (11/06/2009 1:49 PM) |
I think your response should not have been to poke Mrs with your text back "i dont understand". One, I think you dont poke a sleeping dog!! Two, next
time just dont play that passive aggressive game back (cause you DO understand and you ARE happy she isnt coming) and just be like, "thank you for
understanding" and leave it at that.
I think you have every right to be pissed at her, but going forward dont fall into the mistake of digging and playing dumb back at her. |
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Posts: 33392 (11/06/2009 1:51 PM) Biggest Know It All '09
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Everybody is acting like this is such awesome news but I don't really think it is. The rift she is going to create now that she isn't getting her way
is going to cause you even more stress than her coming to Disney World.
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NancyOttawa |
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Posts: 8724 (11/06/2009 1:52 PM) |
I think you should have just texted back "Thank you. I really appreciate this and I promise we'll do something together sometime in the future"
I seriously would have wanted to kick your butt with the "I don't understand" response |
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Posts: 2241 (11/06/2009 2:02 PM) |
NancyOttawa wrote: This. Don't play that passive aggressive mess with them because it's going to be "oh since you insist" if you keep it up. Just send them what Nancy wrote (even though I know you already emailed them something) and live it at that. |
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MandsLB8 |
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Posts: 6046 (11/06/2009 2:04 PM) |
She still wants to come.. I asked her "I don't understand" because I wanted to know the reasoning Aunt Jen doesn't want to come.
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Posts: 4043 (11/06/2009 2:16 PM) |
AudaciousAudrey wrote: I'm worried about this too. She won the battle but did she lose the war? |
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Posts: 12582 (11/06/2009 2:25 PM) Most Random '08 |
She will probably still show up.
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NancyOttawa |
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Posts: 8727 (11/06/2009 2:26 PM) |
MandsLB8 wrote: I really think it's time to just stop with all of this now. I'm starting to lose any sympathy I had for you myself! |
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I see this happening for sure.
