S/O - What are your standards for dating/relationships?
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AudaciousAudrey |
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Posts: 33339 (11/06/2009 12:00 AM) Biggest Know It All '09
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Not me. I just like for us to sit around and scratch ourselves.
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hipsnhearts |
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Posts: 3164 (11/06/2009 12:00 AM) |
1. Non Smoker
2. Decent job 3. nice teeth 4. not clingy 5. not jealous 6. sense of humor 7. ability to get a long with my friends and others 8. Not short tempered 9. I prefer proper grammar use but can overlook it.. uhggggh I don't know.. I'm the pickiest person alive. If I start to get close to someone I usually pick them apart until I have to get rid of them. |
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SharrywasBanned |
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Posts: 2108 (11/06/2009 12:00 AM) JJB Devil '09
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I'm waiting for someone to say:
Shares the exact same opinions as me and is me but not me.
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SharrywasBanned |
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Posts: 2109 (11/06/2009 12:01 AM) JJB Devil '09
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XxBlondeshavemorefunxX wrote: GREAT LIST!!!! |
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XxBlondeshavemorefunxX |
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Posts: 12105 (11/06/2009 12:01 AM) |
SharrywasBanned wrote: Now if only he actually existed.
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SleepToDreamTonight |
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Posts: 12756 (11/06/2009 12:04 AM) Most Intelligent '03 |
1.) No smoking/drug use of any kind (limited alcohol consumption)
2.) Intelligent/Educated 3.) Motivated/Goal Oriented 4.) Responsible 5.) Self sufficient 6.) Share some common interest 7.) Personable and polite 8.) Funny, light-hearted (doesn't always take himself to seriously) 9.) Understanding 10.) Mature I don't think my list is to far out there, just attributes that I think are positive in general. I don't think I'm asking to much, but so knows maybe I am. |
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XxBlondeshavemorefunxX |
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Posts: 12107 (11/06/2009 12:06 AM) |
I forgot to mention that I don't like guys who do drugs or smoke. Alcohol is fine as long as they don't take it to an extreme.
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ipodconga |
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Posts: 15421 (11/06/2009 12:14 AM) |
Courtney Love1 wrote:I'm not looking for a rocket scientist. Educators, health care providers, veterinarians, mental health services, photographer/artist (someone who can see beauty in life = awesome), etc. Someone who enjoys what they do & has interesting things to talk about. Yes, even someone who works in a cubicle so as long as they talk about their day (interesting/funny things) and can keep me stimulated.
Truly, I'm not limiting myself that greatly. |
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Certainly Not Dcutie |
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Posts: 17514 (11/06/2009 12:22 AM) |
*no hard drugs or drugs that cause you to be ugly and/or fat
*must be able to look good (style/hair/etc...) *must be cute even without makeup *must like to listen to music and dance *must like to go out and be adventurous *must be nice and can make conversation with people *must be flexible in all ways *must manage money well *must like to drive (cause I hate it) *must like to travel *must not be too flirtatious *must put me 1st or a close 2nd to family *must know how to handle my temper/impatience *must smell good *must not complain too much List TBC possibly. |
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Froggy86 |
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Posts: 10725 (11/06/2009 12:33 AM) |
ipodconga wrote:There's a reason why you don't have somebody. You don't make a list and try to create the perfect mate. You will be searching forever. |
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lilSS |
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Posts: 12619 (11/06/2009 12:34 AM) |
My mom always said that my standards would have me ending up with Jesus in a pair of Gucci loafers, catching a 45 yard bomb and running into the end zone. That
works for me and I will wait. Im patient!
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ipodconga |
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Posts: 15423 (11/06/2009 12:38 AM) |
Froggy86 wrote:My list isn't too demanding/nit-picky. They're mostly broad traits. It can be summarized by Sweet + Intelligent + Attractive (to me) + Responsible Yet Fun. There are a lot of straight women I know who hit those points. I'm a lesbian and need to find another lesbian who hits on those points. Trust me - it's possible. I'll post back when I meet her.
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orangepeel19 |
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Posts: 15770 (11/06/2009 1:04 AM) Friendliest JJBer '09
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- Somebody who has their life together - steady job/life
- Someone who is socially and politically aware because I cannot stand ignorance especially when it comes to global issues - No racists/homophobes/people who are extremely anti-mainstream - Must love animals+children because I'm very involved with them - Must be prepared to accept my independence and appreciate my domestic tendencies too but NOT take them for granted - Let me watch Pokemon on Saturdays and cuddle/hug me quite a bit. Idc about kisses/sex but I need to be hugged. |
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Angelpopstar7 |
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Posts: 30092 (11/06/2009 1:06 AM) News Editor |
I'm way too picky
*No drugs whats so ever *Non-Smoker *Respectful *5'9" or taller ideally *Mature *Doesn't drink alcohol heavily *Wants kids *Enjoys spending time with family *Decent body *I'd like a man in uniform (cop, firefighter, military, etc.) but that's not a deal breaker. That's the condensed version. No wonder I can't find a man. |
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BWhammy |
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Posts: 5552 (11/06/2009 1:09 AM) |
- Likes animals
- Taller then me - Has common sense - No drugs |
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tp 09 in the house |
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Posts: 1694 (11/06/2009 1:25 AM) |
Damn, some of your are really specific. My list is short someone I can trust, and someone who's honest and respectful. Other than that everything's a
toss up. Although I wouldn't ever date someone who was into drugs (well I guess weed doesn't bother me).
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sarasum41chasez |
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Posts: 12465 (11/06/2009 1:54 AM) |
1) No smokers
2) Must be passionate about something - his job, his family, a hobby (aside from video games 3) Financially stable 4) Has ambition 5) Tall/strong enough to make me feel safe in his arms
6) Not religious - spiritual is entirely okay, but if I ever hear any "Jesus is my savior" shit coming out of his mouth, it's over. Been there. 7) Generous and thoughtful. Not in the "buy me big gifts way" but in the "buy my favourite chocolate bar for me on a random Tuesday because you thought it'd make me happy" way. |
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sarasum41chasez |
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Posts: 12466 (11/06/2009 1:56 AM) |
XxBlondeshavemorefunxX wrote: He does - my boyfriend is all of those. However, I know a few other guys who are all of those too, so they're out there! |
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DrtyPopMe |
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Posts: 40068 (11/06/2009 1:57 AM) |
Even people with "interesting" jobs have boring days, and even when their days are exciting it can get mundane to hear about it day after day. My
boyfriend has a career that requires creativity but 4/5 days are still "I talked to clients, went to a meeting, wrote emails, dropped off plans" so
the actual exciting stuff can be few and far between
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jawnyquest.niketalk |
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Posts: 2420 (11/06/2009 1:59 AM) Best Use of Emoticon award '09
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sense of humor
smell good like cats cake..gotta.have.cake. no alcoholics, junkies, religious freaks or smuts |
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