So guys can have sex with someone they don't love and they can also have sex with out becoming attached to a girl. In a situation where a guy is physically
attracted to a girl and also has some feeling for her, do you think he can have sex with her and not have even more feelings or become attached?
Guys and sex question
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MandsLB8 |
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Posts: 6053 (11/06/2009 2:20 PM) |
dude..
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Posts: 354 (11/06/2009 2:22 PM) |
MandsLB8 wrote: I'm just trying to understand how guys work |
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Posts: 3928 (11/06/2009 2:23 PM) |
I'm afraid that I don't follow your question.... What is the question exactly?
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Posts: 33398 (11/06/2009 2:24 PM) Biggest Know It All '09
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Guys are the simplest people ever to understand. Just think of the simplest answer you can imagine and that's your answer.
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Posts: 6054 (11/06/2009 2:24 PM) |
SexySexyLady1 wrote: I know but if you can have sex without being attracted- why can't they? |
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Posts: 16210 (11/06/2009 2:24 PM) |
SexySexyLady1 wrote: Penis gets hard, fits into nearest opening. That's pretty much it. Gay, straight, bi, doesn't really matter. It's all the same. 
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Posts: 2844 (11/06/2009 2:25 PM) |
It's not a "guy" thing; it just depends on the person. Either you're ok with having promiscuous, meaningless sex or you're not.
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Posts: 2902 (11/06/2009 2:28 PM) |
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AudaciousAudrey |
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Posts: 33399 (11/06/2009 2:30 PM) Biggest Know It All '09
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Guys' feelings for a girl are not dependent upon or affected by sex. Sex and feelings are mutually exclusive. You might as well not have even had sex.
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Posts: 355 (11/06/2009 3:06 PM) |
MandsLB8 wrote: That's not what I'm asking. I'm asking in the specific case where a guy has feelings for a girl, can he have sex with her without developing even more feelings. |
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Posts: 1657 (11/06/2009 3:10 PM) |
SexySexyLady1 wrote:Absolutely. Or he can decide that he's now bored with the girl. Just depends. |
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Posts: 23260 (11/06/2009 3:13 PM) |
i am a little confused on your question....i am sure BOTH guys and girls are like this....
but i feel like its easier for a guy to have sex with a random girl and not get attached and not develop more feelings for them...i hear about more guys just hooking up and one night stands. but either sex can have the same actions. |
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Posts: 356 (11/06/2009 3:14 PM) |
fallin4justin wrote: I'm not asking about a guy having sex with a random girl. I'm asking about a guy having sex with a girl he has feelings for. WOuld having sex with her lead him to have even more feelings or not necessarily. |
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lana85 |
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Posts: 13243 (11/06/2009 3:15 PM) |
Its not just a guy thing. There is girls like that too.
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bigredmunkeebutt |
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Posts: 16212 (11/06/2009 3:16 PM) |
^^Wouldn't that depend on how good or bad the sex was?
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Posts: 960 (11/06/2009 4:29 PM) |
You have some bad prejudices. Not every man is alike and not every woman and you can't predict how every man in the world would react to a given situation
like they're all the same. FYI plenty of women have casual sex...
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Posts: 1030 (11/06/2009 4:30 PM) |
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Posts: 3657 (11/06/2009 4:44 PM) |
I don't think a guy having sex with a girl he likes will cause him to have deeper feelings. I mean I'm sure it can, but generally I think when a guy
has feelings for a girl, what makes those feelings deeper is getting to know the girl, etc. I think generally same goes for a girl, girls just try to read into
everything and trick themselves into thinking sex means more than it really does.
I'm not saying sex isn't a great and meaningful thing when it's with the right person, but I think people put too much emphasis on sex and what it "means". |
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folkbitts |
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Posts: 962 (11/06/2009 4:55 PM) |
In general I think that if you're not in a relationship before you have sex, you won't be after. IE, if you're fifteen and the local casanova
starts hitting on you and telling you how much he likes you and promising tons of stuff and you end up having sex with him and hope you will be a couple
afterwards, you wont. He will drop you.
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Posts: 2133 (11/06/2009 4:58 PM) JJB Devil '09
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I have a headache.
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