Especially when it's your mother? My mom has been "helping" her boyfriend for so long now, it's starting to affect her life. She brings him
food and cooks it for him. She brings him beer and liquor. She gives him money to go golfing. She pays his bills. She does his laundry and ironing.
She's so blind to the shit he's pulling. He's never done anything for her! Never taken her out to dinner, to the movies, never borrowed HER money when she was strapped. He rarely works, and when he does, it's never for long.
And now she's been giving him so much money and buying him stuff that she's putting herself in debt. She owes both me and my brother money and she's behind on all her bills.
I don't know what to do. She just tends to snap and recoil whenever anybody brings it up. I mean...I know she's lonely. My dad committed suicide nearly 10 years ago. I know she wants someone in her life. But this guy is so horrible. I don't want him to ruin her.
She's so blind to the shit he's pulling. He's never done anything for her! Never taken her out to dinner, to the movies, never borrowed HER money when she was strapped. He rarely works, and when he does, it's never for long.
And now she's been giving him so much money and buying him stuff that she's putting herself in debt. She owes both me and my brother money and she's behind on all her bills.
I don't know what to do. She just tends to snap and recoil whenever anybody brings it up. I mean...I know she's lonely. My dad committed suicide nearly 10 years ago. I know she wants someone in her life. But this guy is so horrible. I don't want him to ruin her.
