When you are like looking for someone to be with - do you ever feel like you are too picky?
Do you ever feel like you are too picky?
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 IHeartDrDorian |
Do you ever feel like you are too picky? |
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Posts: 11365 (11/06/2009 7:48 PM) |
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HappyCori |
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Posts: 1326 (11/06/2009 7:53 PM) |
Ugh, yes. I have this list...that really needs to go. The worst is that I compare all men to my ex-husband sans the cheating. I loved everything about him
until I caught his lying cheating ass.
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HappyCori |
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Posts: 1327 (11/06/2009 7:55 PM) |
I wish I were 17 again!
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IHeartDrDorian |
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Posts: 11366 (11/06/2009 7:56 PM) |
Yea, cheating is a definite no-no.
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HappyCori |
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Posts: 1328 (11/06/2009 7:59 PM) |
Well, what makes you think you are too picky? I feel like only 20% of my list is justified. Such as no smoking, no more than 1 baby momma (dont need a K-Fed in
my life) must be employed...
But then I have: no sandals, no tattoos, no nail biting...that I really need to get over |
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AeroSync9 |
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Posts: 12950 (11/06/2009 8:02 PM) |
yes I'm too picky... I won't go out with a smoker.. or someone who likes to get drunk (having a drink or two while out is fine) I won't go out with
someone who doesn't have a good job. It doesn't have to be something big and makes a lot of money but at my age I will not go out with someone who is
happy making min wage. Excessive tattoos and piercings is a big turn off.
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Savannah Leigh |
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Posts: 4456 (11/06/2009 8:05 PM) Most Likely to Reply '09
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No, not yet. Maybe I'll feel that way when I'm 30 and still single.
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noname185 |
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Posts: 658 (11/06/2009 8:29 PM) |
Yeah, but there's not many guys that even like me anyway.
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becky711 |
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Posts: 4254 (11/06/2009 8:52 PM) |
HappyCori wrote:No tattoos at all????? |
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RedShimmerPlatforms |
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Posts: 183 (11/06/2009 8:53 PM) |
Savannah Leigh wrote: 
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Solo Mish |
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Posts: 4991 (11/06/2009 10:35 PM) |
Sometimes
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 Patti972 |
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Posts: 13070 (11/06/2009 10:37 PM) |
YES! About everything, not just guys.
I have no list or anything like that, I just am sadly pretty particular. |
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dannie9 |
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Posts: 5969 (11/06/2009 11:57 PM) |
im very picky especially with food
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IHeartDrDorian |
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Posts: 11367 (11/07/2009 5:26 PM) |
HappyCori wrote: I don't really think that I'm picky. I just have standards. Like I don't want someone who is a slacker, who doesn't have an education (and they don't have to have a 4-year degree, they just have to value education), and I want someone who's decently attractive. But sometimes people say I'm too picky because I just won't settle for anyone. I feel that you get a feeling for someone within your first date or two and if I'm not into the guy, I'm not going to pursue it further. Or if I feel as if he isn't someone who I can seem myself being with for a long time, I won't do it. |
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HappyCori |
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Posts: 1345 (11/07/2009 5:33 PM) |
Being picky and not willing to settle are two different things. I dont think you are picky, you just have standards. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion. Me,
on the other had...yea, I need to let go of a couple of things
I agree, if you cant see yourself with someone, why waste the time? I am past the dating phase....sounds like you are too. Just stick with you heart. Best wishes |
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ILUVBubbleGUM |
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Posts: 1211 (11/07/2009 5:39 PM) |
I've felt that way before my current boyfriend. But I think it just came down to a matter of taste. I seem to get hit on my guys that are not my
"type".
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freebus18 |
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Posts: 19016 (11/07/2009 5:42 PM) |
nothing wrong with knowing what you want, it will probably work out better for you in the long run
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IHeartDrDorian |
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Posts: 11372 (11/07/2009 5:44 PM) |
HappyCori wrote: Yea, I definitely am over dating just to date. I want to find someone to be with for a while. And I actually met this guy... and I hope that things turn out good between us because I really like him 
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