they got blown off by a few other people, have nothing to do, and are just really upset... You're going to a party and already bringing someone, would you
invite your good friend to come along?
Your really good friend is having a horrible night...
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Posts: 853 (11/11/2009 11:30 PM) |
If they're not invited/don't know the person having the party, no. But if they were really upset, I'd skip the party and go be with that friend
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Posts: 1350 (11/11/2009 11:31 PM) |
Absolutely! But only if she WANTED to go.
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Posts: 33703 (11/11/2009 11:32 PM) Biggest Know It All '09
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No, that friend probably got blown off by those people because they are no fun to hang out with.
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Posts: 2865 (11/11/2009 11:33 PM) |
Ideally, I would say to hang out with your friend privately and talk, but you don't want to blow off the other person you're going to the party with.
So I would definitely ask her to come along, and if she doesn't want to, I'd meet up with her later.
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Posts: 7761 (11/11/2009 11:35 PM) |
If theyre normally a lot to handle when theyre upset- then no I wouldnt invite them.
If it was serious i might not go to the party to be with them. |
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Posts: 13100 (11/11/2009 11:38 PM) |
If they're really upset, they probably don't want to go to a party. And if they're one of my best friends and they're really upset, I probably
forego the party to hang out with them and make sure everything is copasetic.
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Posts: 6312 (11/11/2009 11:40 PM) |
She wasn't really upset, but more like a little bit pissed off that her other friends didn't invite her out. It was because she had just got over a
cold and they didn't want to get sick. Anyways, I didn't invite her out and she brought it up to me today and now I'm starting to feel badly.
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Posts: 1355 (11/11/2009 11:40 PM) |
I agree with the above. If they were totally upset, I would blow off the party. You can always go to a party.
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Posts: 3200 (11/11/2009 11:42 PM) |
why didn't you invite her? Did you not really think about doing so or thought about it but decided against it?
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Posts: 3201 (11/11/2009 11:43 PM) |
jRtS dReAm GrL wrote:In that case I would have invited her. |
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Posts: 1357 (11/11/2009 11:44 PM) |
jRtS dReAm GrL wrote:You should feel badly. I hope the party was more worthwhile than a friend in need. 
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Posts: 5164 (11/11/2009 11:45 PM) |
AudaciousAudrey wrote:That was my first thought 
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Posts: 6313 (11/11/2009 11:48 PM) |
I don't really know. I just didn't really think about it...I was rushing to get ready for the Halloween party, etc. She had asked me what I was doing
that night and I said going to a party. I said I would text/call her later on in the night, and I did but she didn't answer the phone that night because
she went to bed. We've talked and hung out since and all has been fine...but she just found out that I brought someone with me and she was upset as to why
I didn't ask her to go along, etc. Now I feel bad.
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Posts: 5165 (11/12/2009 12:09 AM) |
I don't like how people get upset about being asked to go everywhere you go. I don't call up everyone I know everytime I leave my house.
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Posts: 16120 (11/12/2009 3:44 AM) |
If they're not invited/don't know the person having the party, no. But if they were really upset, I'd skip the party and go be with that friend instead. This... also, if it was cool to bring someone else to the party or not. |
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Posts: 40741 (11/12/2009 3:50 AM) |
KimLikesBigOranges wrote:Exactly. Fuck the party, I'd be with my friend asap and we'd be making our own little party. |
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Posts: 17190 (11/12/2009 4:05 AM) |
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