Not at all. It's just sex, not that big of a deal IMO.
Is Being 24 & a Virgin Abnormal?
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Posts: 327 (11/16/2009 11:55 PM) |
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dana hoover |
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Posts: 863 (11/17/2009 12:08 AM) |
I don't think it is abnormal. I was a virgin at 24. Everyone is different. You should wait until you are ready or find the right guy. Don't do it to
just to lose it. I lost mine at 26 to the guy I am going to marry. I am glade I waited.
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JtzCrunkster81 |
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Posts: 19364 (11/17/2009 12:09 AM) |
No.
I'm a few years younger than you and still a virgin...I almost don't like being one but at the same time I REFUSE to have sex w/ someone I am not super, and I do mean super, attracted to. Like I look at some of my friends and am like EW  why you would u fuck someone like that (and then especially
when they have crap/mean personalities)
And I think lots of people lie about not being one and the whole society says you shouldn't be one at a certain age is weird. Like who gives a fuck? |
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JCsSchizoShorty |
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Posts: 1473 (11/17/2009 12:14 AM) |
the lakes slave wrote: Oh PLEASE tell me there are other 40 year old virgins on here besides me????? Or were you referring to me? 
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lilSS |
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Posts: 12705 (11/17/2009 12:41 AM) |
My two best friends are 29 and theyre both virgins.
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bonjoviroxmysox |
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Posts: 12718 (11/17/2009 1:02 AM) |
I'm a 23 year old virgin who's getting impatient, but I won't find myself abnormal if it goes through my 24th birthday. Disappointed, yes. lol But
not abnormal. I just haven't met anyone worth going the far with yet
 No inclination to waste it after holding on this long.
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dear lady |
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Posts: 40761 (11/17/2009 2:32 AM) |
Nowadays it's definitely uncommon but I'm not sure I'd say it's abnormal. I'm going to be 23 soon and I'm still a
virgin. I'll do it when it's right... I'm not in a rush and I'm not going to just go out and get fucked.
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marlsj |
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Posts: 12299 (11/17/2009 2:43 AM) |
No.
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AngelPrincess81 |
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Posts: 4144 (11/17/2009 2:47 AM) |
bonjoviroxmysox wrote: This is me in a nutshell. I've always been super picky...but there's nothing wrong with waiting until you won't regret who you're doing it with.
Edited By: AngelPrincess81
11/17/2009 2:49 AM.
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merchasa |
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Posts: 2610 (11/17/2009 4:22 AM) |
Of the virgins who are waiting, do you guys masturbate? Are you sexual in other ways? To me virginity is sometimes different depending on who you ask. I
remember hearing about girls saving the vaginal sex for their husbands but having oral or anal sex and not considering that losing their virginity.
As for me, I lost it my freshman year in college. i dont think being 24 and a virgin is abnormal, as long as you have a healthy attitude about sex, and no fear of sex or pleasure. |
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 an dee 51o |
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Posts: 199 (11/17/2009 5:36 AM) |
katierules15 wrote:Gold star. That's cool, yo. |
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heul |
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Posts: 181 (11/17/2009 8:34 AM) |
It's called self respect, which not many people have these days.
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Olivia725 |
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Posts: 2453 (11/17/2009 8:53 AM) |
Unusual now. Kids are starting so young these days. I don't think you are abnormal for waiting, it is just kinda rare now.
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abujail |
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Posts: 1814 (11/17/2009 9:15 AM) |
heul wrote:you couldn't have say it any better me & my two sister are virgins i am 25 my oldest sister is 29 everybody is different |
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abujail |
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Posts: 1815 (11/17/2009 9:19 AM) |
dear lady wrote: true so am i all my friend tell me i am wired go have you getting old blah blah i just 
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Tealeaf |
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Posts: 5135 (11/17/2009 9:21 AM) |
It's not abnormal, keeping honoring yourself, it will pay off
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Olivia725 |
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Posts: 2454 (11/17/2009 9:30 AM) |
And your husband will thank you.a lot!!!!!
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Kisses4NSync |
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Posts: 12472 (11/17/2009 10:02 AM) |
ipodconga wrote:Amen.  I also agree with orangepeel that sex isn't a race. At 24, I was still a virgin too. I agree with those who say it's definitely
uncommon but not abnormal at all. There's these things out here called STDs and unwanted pregnancies. There'd be a lot less of that if people were more
careful when they mess around. It definitely smart to be careful these days.
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Nneecolee |
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Posts: 10473 (11/17/2009 10:03 AM) |
It's not a bad thing! Tina Fey was a virgin at 24!
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sweeti4509 |
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Posts: 3694 (11/17/2009 10:07 AM) |
It is sort of abnormal...not in a bad way, just that it's not "the norm". There is nothing wrong with it though..it's good that you have that
much self discipline and self worth.
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