Say you have a girlfriend who when everytime she runs into her ex her degrades her and makes her feel like shit so then she runs to you crying and tells you
how pissed and hurt she is. You give her advice, listen to her whine and tell her all will be ok.
But then the next day she calls her ex and the same thing happens again. Then again. Then again. And each time after she contacts him she keeps running back to you crying about how he broke was an ass to her.
Does it make a person a bad friend if they basically don't wanna hear it anymore the only advice they can think of anymore is to tell her she's being stupid for putting herself in the same situation again and again?
But then the next day she calls her ex and the same thing happens again. Then again. Then again. And each time after she contacts him she keeps running back to you crying about how he broke was an ass to her.
Does it make a person a bad friend if they basically don't wanna hear it anymore the only advice they can think of anymore is to tell her she's being stupid for putting herself in the same situation again and again?


