...monogamous. Especially guys. I swear to god, 95% of the guys I know have cheated on their gfs, or would be willing to cheat, if the opportunity arose. And
as controversial as it may sound, I think this goes for a good majority of people in general, especially guys. If people (once again, especially guys) could
get away with cheating with no one knowing about it, I guarantee you they would. I think people are just really naive to this, and everyone knows that
you're "supposed" to be monogamous, so people put on a huge front. You know that "guy that would NEVER cheat!" yeah well, I'm
pretty sure he would if he knew there would be no repercusions for his actions.
I seriously don't think people are meant to be...
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Posts: 12582 (11/20/2009 9:48 PM) |
We aren't really.
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Posts: 6444 (11/20/2009 9:48 PM) |
Mistress Darcy wrote:Yes, that's true. Technically speaking. |
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Posts: 53879 (11/20/2009 9:50 PM) |
And this is why I will stay single for the rest of my life. Too risky to get hurt these days. Cheating seems to have become an epidemic.
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Posts: 4508 (11/20/2009 9:51 PM) |
I think there are times where people should just not be in a relationship and should not try to fake it. There are other times when you are ready to be
committed. Why can't you just tell a girl upfront that you are not looking for a relationship? There are girls that are fine with that. Just be honest and
a whole lot of heartache could be avoided. There is a way to do with without disrespecting the other person.
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I think that if you find the RIGHT person, you won't cheat. I think some people really are meant to be. And this is coming from a girl who's ex bf was
fucking someone else behind her back. I didn't find out until after I broke up with him tho. Bet he wasn't expecting ME to break up with HIM
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Posts: 1122 (11/20/2009 10:03 PM) |
I was looking around at all the people I know that are married the other day and I only could come up with ONE couple that is truly happy together. The rest
either have one or both cheating on each other, or they are completely miserable.
My parents had a great marriage, but it did run it's course. My mom married out of friendship and not love. I think that the movies are skewing my idea of love. I want that passion that you see on screen, and I don't think it's very realistic. |
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First time I agree with OP. So true.
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Posts: 9740 (11/20/2009 10:13 PM) |
I definitely believe this. I know people that will never cheat on their s/o while I know others that sleep around and whether their s/o knows or not, I have no
idea. But I think trust is more important than monogamy (you know, just like the Savage Garden song.
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someone or married and he was seeing other people? Hell yea. I couldn't say I'd dump him (well, depended on how I really felt about him) but he'd
definitely be on my shit list for awhile.
However, I would trust him not to bring home excess baggage with it. Don't get her pregnant and don't bring me something that water isn't going to wash off. Just don't bring that extra shit back to me. I don't want it nor need it. |
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Posts: 2527 (11/20/2009 10:14 PM) |
I believe this as well. I don't believe in people being "meant to be" or any of that crap. You're together because you get along and have
fun, and then when you don't, or when someone else comes along, you just have to let go.
But I think there are people who wouldn't cheat because of the guilt. Even if they wanted to, they may not actually do it because they would feel bad, even if they'd never get caught. But they should at least break up with their S/O and then go fuck said person
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Posts: 53880 (11/20/2009 10:14 PM) |
See what I don't understand is why get into a relationship in the first place if you want to cheat? Just stay single and fuck around all you want, no one
gets hurt.
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Posts: 6445 (11/20/2009 10:17 PM) |
ALR83 wrote:Because people want their cake and to eat it too. |
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Posts: 53881 (11/20/2009 10:25 PM) |
DoesThatSparkle wrote: Well that pisses me off. God I hate people so much, I'm just going to stay alone and be bitter for the rest of my life.
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Posts: 18819 (11/20/2009 10:33 PM) |
DoesThatSparkle wrote: House is it having their cake? They could get cake (sex) I'm sure w/o a relationship. . |
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Posts: 6446 (11/20/2009 10:43 PM) |
whitgirl09 wrote:Because I think everyone wants that "special" person to be with. They want that constant in their life to hang out with, watch movies with, go to dinner with, and just be with in a sense of what normal boyfriends and girlfriends do. But after awhile that gets old and boring (even if the person is still in love) so from that point, people also want to sleep around and be with other people because it's exciting/fresh/new. But then at the end of the day, they still want their "constant" to come home to. That's having their cake and eating it too... And I'm going to pretend you didn't say "house is it." |
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Posts: 5245 (11/20/2009 10:44 PM) |
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Posts: 5468 (11/20/2009 10:46 PM) |
DoesThatSparkle wrote:Amen been there done that and especially when I was dating a guy 6 years older than me I was 17 and . He would tell me anything and I believed him. He told me he had an ex, which he would still see and took her camping with him one weekend and took me indoor rock climbing. I didn't know about her until she wrote me a letter begging me to break it off with him so she could see if they could make it work again. I'm thinking break what off? He had told me he and his ex hadn't communicated in months. He did the crying thing saying how sorry and that she was obsessed with him because of me. Even telling me he should kill himself for hurting me. I was dumb enouge h to believe him and take him back. It got worse I had a ring and everything. I felt like a fool. Took me a while to get over him. All his letters and cards, ring I just put in a box away. Funny thing is we had been broken up and I was in a new relationship. I get a call from some girl telling me she found my cell number on his phone and she was married to him and ask me if I was seeing him. Then when I said no and I was in another relationship, she told me she caught him cheating on her. When he was single he cheated and now he's married and apparently still cheating. That's why I don't believe when people say oh he's cheating on his girlfirends until he gets it out of his system and will get married. If you cheat on your girlfriends you will cheat on your wife is my belief. Thank goodness I'm in another relationship but not naive like I was when I was 17. |
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Posts: 3174 (11/20/2009 10:56 PM) |
The biological function of the cock is to spread the seed to as many women as possible. This was more important for our species tens of thousands of years ago,
but not so much now.
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Posts: 670 (11/20/2009 10:57 PM) |
Chris Rock said men are as faithful as their options, to a certain extent I believe that is true.
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Posts: 413 (11/20/2009 11:51 PM) |
I agree with the OP and FirstStrike.
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Posts: 11535 (11/20/2009 11:54 PM) |
 Penguins are monogamous.
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