their exes.
K? And go.
K? And go.
I need to hear happy stories of people getting back with
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Posts: 2597 (11/26/2009 8:24 PM) |
Im currently back with my ex and our bond has just gotten stronger. However in our case over the past 3 years even when we werent offically together we still
acted like we were. I plan on marrying her when the time is right. I love her so much
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Posts: 316 (11/26/2009 8:25 PM) |
*crickets*
Sorry I am sure that their are some out there, but the best thing I think for you to do is to start the healing process. Which I imagine will be hard since you were with this guy for so long. |
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Posts: 22803 (11/26/2009 8:27 PM) |
I know, but I feel like I'm stuck here until I can go back to school and I need something to keep me from just.. sinking.
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Posts: 318 (11/26/2009 8:37 PM) |
ok I remembered one. My uncle got back with his high school sweetheart after 30 some odd years, 4 children (on the uncle's part), a girlfriend, and a wife.
they have now been together for maybe 10, 11 years now.
I am sure you dont want to wait that long. Gosh I am sorry I don't feel like I am helping! 
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Posts: 2925 (11/26/2009 8:40 PM) |
My sister got back together with her ex after dating another guy or about 6 months. They're married now and have one kid and one on the way.
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Posts: 12497 (11/26/2009 8:46 PM) |
Sorry I am sure that their are some out there, but the best thing I think for you to do is to start the healing process. Which I imagine will be hard since you were with this guy for so long. I agree. It's sad but this is what happens when a woman makes her life all about a guy and she doesn't have any girlfriends. Has he given any indication that he'd be interested in trying to work things out with you? If not, I think you should do yourself a huge favor and move on. I know it's gonna be tough but it'll be good for you to see what it's like to be single for a while. 
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Posts: 978 (11/26/2009 8:47 PM) |
I just back together with a guy who i dated about 8.5 years ago in jr high/high school and we are happier then ever right now!
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Posts: 420 (11/26/2009 8:55 PM) |
My brother and his second wife divorced last March and just got remarried last week. Their relationship is a LOT better than the first time around. They're
trying for a baby now (her first, his second)
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Posts: 3570 (11/26/2009 9:11 PM) |
I know it's hard to go through a huge break up. I was with my guy for 5 years and he suddenly broke it off with me. I was devastated but we really were
unhappy for awhile and I knew it. We were apart 4 months and in the meantime he got with some other girl and I got with a bunch of different guys. (That's
an example of what not to do) Everyone thought she was a rebound but I was heartbroken they were seemingly happy. (Yes, I did the myspace stalk. I'm not
proud of it!)
One day he called to get some of his things back and we started talking and I finally apologized for some things I had done and we went a few places here and there. We ended up getting back together. He proposed and we are going on our 8th year together. I'm not saying mine is the average case in a break up. But I think we both knew we had something special together. Even though we drive each other up the wall sometimes. My best advice to anyone that has been through a break up is take your time to grieve but don't let it rule you. I know it's hard and I certainly made my blunders. Don't expect anything to happen either. Just let it be. Try not to be a party girl but don't stay at home sulking either. If you see him act polite and don't seem pitiful. You'll get through this, girl. |
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