Please let me know. I've tried everything.
How to get over a broken heart
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How to get over a broken heart |
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Posts: 525 (09/07/2009 1:36 PM) |
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Alex the Goob |
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Posts: 52761 (09/07/2009 1:37 PM) |
Time, and stop trying.
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PLURfekt |
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Posts: 12523 (09/07/2009 1:37 PM) |
honestly, it'll take time. keep yourself busy.
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Butterflygal20 |
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Posts: 2335 (09/07/2009 1:37 PM) |
Time. It's your best friend and worst enemy. Time is the only thing to heal a broken heart. For now focus on other things, I went back to school.
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Eliza Is So Sexy |
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Posts: 74479 (09/07/2009 1:37 PM) |
yes, stop trying. It will only make you think about it more and feel worse.
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skyblue87 |
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Posts: 526 (09/07/2009 1:39 PM) |
I've kept myself busy, and I am in school. But my mind always goes back, even if I'm out having a good time.
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Alex the Goob |
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Posts: 52765 (09/07/2009 1:39 PM) |
How long has it been?
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 KaraTeachesK |
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Posts: 422 (09/07/2009 1:40 PM) |
There is no way. Only time, and lots of it. Meeting new people helps a little, because it give you something to think of, other than the devastation.
My ex-boyfriend and I were working things out, he called so much every day this summer, I love you blah blah. Last night I ran into him at a block party and he was with the girl that he swore to me he didn't talk to. They'd been swimming together alone, at midnight, and were obviously there together. I have no words for how I'm feeling right now. He was my best friend and was leading this whole other life that I didn't know about. So now I have to get over it all over again. |
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skyblue87 |
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Posts: 527 (09/07/2009 1:41 PM) |
A really long time...almost 9 months
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TXbeauty |
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Posts: 2105 (09/07/2009 1:41 PM) |
Find a new hobby, your present one (obsessing over the hurt and pain) is not healthy.
Take a cooking class, exercise, learn a new language..anything to take your mind off it. Soon, you will be over the whole thing.  
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skyblue87 |
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Posts: 528 (09/07/2009 1:44 PM) |
When someone is your whole life for so long and suddenly they aren't there anymore, it hurts like hell. Especially when now somebody else is there whole
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And I don't know how to move on. I have tried. I have dated other guys...and nothing. |
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PLURfekt |
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Posts: 12524 (09/07/2009 1:46 PM) |
skyblue87 wrote: honestly, it may take longer. it took me about a year and a half to get over my ex. |
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Pliant Pineapple |
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Posts: 46331 (09/07/2009 3:01 PM) Funniest JJBer '06
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Time wounds all heels. Maybe try to focus on something that does make you happy--exercise, a hobby, friends, etc. Put all the energy you have into that and in
time you'll find you're concentrating on that and not the loss.
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