Well my best friend and I decided to go to Paris for thanksgiving and stay over my close cousin's place (Who my best friend met before). My cousin happily
welcomed both of us. Well we arrived to Paris on Monday, and my best friend only stayed one night at my cousins place and then decided to move her stuff to go
to her friends place and not even thanking my cousin or anything, she didn't even want to go out with us (we all have mutual friends) saying that she gets
"shy" around new people. Which is complete crap. What's funny is, the first night, we all decided to go to dinner just the 3 of us, then she
decided to go with her other friend who we also know, and we found them in the same restaurant as we were. How funny.
I'm SO pissed!
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Posts: 5496 (11/28/2009 10:23 AM) |
Please tell me you didn't waste your time in Paris being mad about her not being around and not wanting to be around?
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Posts: 9031 (02/09/1969 3:59 PM) |
So you're mad because your best friend decided to stay with her own friends rather than at your cousin's place who is a stranger to her? I guess I
don't see the big deal to be honest.
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Posts: 4904 (11/28/2009 10:30 AM) |
oh hell now i went out and had my fun lol.
No i'm not mad, and my cousin is not a stranger, she knows her very very well, her friend is a stranger since she only met her couple of months ago.. and my cousin she knew her for ages.. |
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Posts: 5497 (11/28/2009 10:34 AM) |
Well if you enjoyed yourself otherwise then, fuck it. Unless you are going to call her up and tell her that it hurt you, pissed you off, or whatever it did to
you and you just wanted to let her know.
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Posts: 7708 (11/28/2009 10:34 AM) |
Maybe she felt uncomfortable spending time with you and someone who's a part of your family for Thanksgiving? I can understand that. I would feel left out
too.
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Posts: 12715 (11/28/2009 10:44 AM) |
Damn, sometimes I think the JJB was raised by wolves. You don't park your ass at someone's place for a night, leave without thanking them, and then
make up stupid lies when two of your good friends ask if you want to go to dinner or something. Adults do not act that way.
She was acting like an idiot, but at least you had fun in Paris!! |
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Posts: 4905 (11/28/2009 10:51 AM) |
I told her before she left that what you did it bothered me, but i didn't tell her about how disrespectful she was to my cousin. But if she brought it up
again I will.
No she didn't, I know her too well, why would she say she'd stay with us from the beginning (this is not the first time she'd stay over at our place). |
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Posts: 6165 (11/28/2009 10:53 AM) |
Mistress Darcy wrote:This. Will you confront her on the way back? I suspect that you are taking the same flight back. |
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Posts: 4906 (11/28/2009 10:58 AM) |
No thats the funny part we r not even on the same flight. She couldn't find reservation, so she's leaving couple of hours earlier than me. She called
me yesterday (around 11 pm) and I ignored her. the thing is she's acting all normal as if nothing happened. she sent me a msg today saying we are going to
this cafe if u wanna join.. IF?? FUCK OFF. i ignored that as well.
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Posts: 4907 (11/28/2009 10:59 AM) |
Mistress Darcy wrote: Exactly! My cousins was like, my place is not the Marriotte, check in and check out whenever you want. |
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Posts: 5498 (11/28/2009 11:10 AM) |
Well don't be petty about it and wait for her to bring it up. YOU bring it up and YOU let her know all of your feelings on the situation at hand.
I do on the other hand believe that she owes your cousin an apology. |
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Posts: 4908 (11/28/2009 11:12 AM) |
I was thinking just to send her a long text when we get back. Because I seriously can't stand looking at her face.
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Posts: 5500 (11/28/2009 11:14 AM) |
No!
 Sending a text is a cowards way out of it. You didn't do anything wrong in this situation. You don't have to see her face if you have a
phone.
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Posts: 4909 (11/28/2009 11:23 AM) |
True. I'll call her when i get back.
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